My ex-boyfriend & I have been in a long distance relationship for 3yrs & we broke up too many times to count. But every time we visit each other we make up only to break up again. He plans to visit soon do you think we should make another attempt?
2006-08-23 07:59:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-23 08:01:22 · answer #1 · answered by agraat23 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my ex boyfriend and i went through the same thing. and it was a 2 year long distance relationship and we broke up so many times my friend would joke a round saying stuff like "i give it 2 weeks until they break up again" but he ended up cheating on me and we broke up but he sweet talked himself back into my life again. but in the end i got fed up with breaking up and arguing so i moved on.
my advice to you is to think, if i like this guy so much, why do we break up so many times. in my opinion, you need to move on because your going no where with this guy, your just gonna end up doing what you always do. breaking up and getting back together if you try again.
2006-08-23 08:06:21 · answer #2 · answered by nessy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No NO NO, this is why k? do you think it will get much further in your relationship than to break up? Even if you plain on marring him you have to think about it k? just because you get married doesnt mean everything gets better because it doesnt. Its doomed for failure, DOnt waste anymore time with him, Find someone that will love you for who you are, and that wants to be with you no matter what.
2006-08-23 08:02:53 · answer #3 · answered by justwaitingtoleave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why even bother your just going to break up again!Why dont you find someone else and quit talking to this guy.Someoone who will like stay with you on a regular basis.Quit this jerry springer crap and get on with your life.It isnt that hard finding another man.Good luck!
2006-08-23 08:03:51 · answer #4 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not the pattern for a relationship you deserve. Break up to make up, is a song not the way of life.
2006-08-23 08:03:10 · answer #5 · answered by Golden Scepter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds more like you just get along when you see each other-that is not love.So,at worst,you are friends! And in the last days of your lives you will be able to count the number of TRUE friends on one hand.I hope you are both able to count each other then.
2006-08-23 08:03:27 · answer #6 · answered by Maw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be some other place when
he comes to town.
You are only kindling a memory.
In real life you two are over.
He will too - which is probably
the hard part for you...
You don't want him, but
you don't want him to have an
existence without you.
Get over it all!
2006-08-23 08:12:13 · answer #7 · answered by NANCY K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You guys are probably doing it out of habit. If it never worked in the past it wont now. Your issues are still there. Find a new BF.
2006-08-23 08:15:25 · answer #8 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, unless you both talk and clear all the problems that you've been encountering. discuss what your plans for the future are; as individuals and as a couple. If you think these jive then go for it, if not, move on.
2006-08-23 08:07:39 · answer #9 · answered by jepoidavid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about it...maybe if you want to see each other just make it a when he comes in to town you have sex type of deal...theres no sense in trying to work out a relationship that is just going to fail
2006-08-23 08:01:52 · answer #10 · answered by KrIsTyN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance r elationship are horrible.try find a ne guy who loves you
2006-08-23 08:03:21 · answer #11 · answered by Gsk no 1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋