well this guy that I've been dating asked my to marry him he is like super rich he also likes my twin girls as his duaghter. so he asked me to marry him but he wants me to move to Spain together buy a mansion and live happily ever after. Should I say yes I dont want to put a father on my daughters
2006-08-23 07:50:40 · 14 answers · asked by ~~~baby boo 4 life~~~~~~~~a.k.a 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
WAKE UP! YOU'RE DREAMING!
2006-08-23 07:53:43 · answer #1 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not nearly enough information here to answer this question wisely. It sounds like a fantasy come true, or just a fantasy maybe. When there are children involved there is a completely different set of rules. Where is their father? Are you allowed to take these children out of the state, much less the country, without the permission of their father? The courts? Spain is not a country whose culture oppresses women in the fashion that some Middle Eastern countries do. Because of this I think it could be safe for you and your girls. But, perhaps a visit to Spain without the children first would be in order. How long and how well do you know this man? Are you positive what he says to you about his financial situation is true? Spend a little of your own $$ and research his background so you are sure what you have been promised is what can be delivered. Sounds sort of squirley to me.
2006-08-23 14:59:15 · answer #2 · answered by wibbsite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you nutz? You're daughters need a father figure in there life. And if this guy is rich, and can give you everything you want, then what in the h-e-l-l are you waiting for. A written invitation?
2006-08-23 14:54:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, your girls do need a father. I think you should accept but don't make a major move until you check him out seriously a background check. We don't want to dive in head first, you deserve happiness but not at your mental, emotional, and financial expense. I think it is beautiful right out of the freaking fairy tale book. Beware proceed with caution. Good luck.
2006-08-23 14:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by nina_ross692000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't even sound real. Even if it is, there is not enough information here to make any kind of sound decision - like how old are your girls, where is their father, do you have legal rights to take them out of the US? Nice fantasy, but more details would make it more fun.
2006-08-23 15:19:55 · answer #5 · answered by heartforhelping 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say no, don't marry him!!! You will regret it!!! Him being super rich should not matter and it sounds like you are thinking about marrying him because he is rich. Not once have you mentioned love.
2006-08-23 15:10:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart.
2006-08-23 14:53:54 · answer #7 · answered by lovehimalways19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think whats best for your girls (future wise)
and stop being a gold digger....
you should ask the guy your dating to pay for your school cuz your stupid!!
2006-08-23 15:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by soul.searcher 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uh yea- they dont need to call him dad- but only if ya'll want to- some giurls have all the luck?!! Congratulations!
2006-08-23 14:53:12 · answer #9 · answered by shannon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Catch him before someone else does.
Hurry!
Congrats and good luck
2006-08-23 14:56:53 · answer #10 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... Seems as if you've watched one to many soaps...
2006-08-23 14:57:34 · answer #11 · answered by deakjone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋