When you are out of college and working. This way you can support your life together financially, you are grown up enough having lived some life, and you can afford to have a wedding (if that's what you want).
2006-08-23 07:36:50
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answered by Anonymous
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Everyone is different. Waiting until you have a career? Perhaps, but not always. I didn't have a career until I was 34, and had all four kids by then. I would not have had any children if i'd have waited.
If you count your biological clock as a factor and don't want to be close to retirement when your kids leave home, you need to have kids before you're 30.
I married the first time at 19. Dumb idea.
Second time at 22. BAD idea.
Third time at 23. Stupid idea.
Fourth time at 28--good idea, lasted 10 yrs.
Now I'm almost 39 and will marry for a 5th time. But there are no children to be had, no real financial concerns, we both have careers and I never felt this way about a man before. I could never see myself growing old with the 4previous, but definitely this one.
But I'm almost 40. So to each his/her own.
2006-08-23 09:22:51
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answered by moniquebell 3
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I don't believe there is a good age for marriage. It depends upon the relationship, if you really are truly in love with someone. Marriage is alot of work. Date for awhile, move in with each other and live together for awhile, then get married. I found that you really don't know a person until you live with them for at least a year. After a year all of their quirks are pretty much out in the open. You can't hide much! You cannot tell yourself you want to be married by a specific age because then you may feel pressured into marrying someone who is not right for you. You will know when it is right. You just get a feeling. If you have doubts listen to them. It's probably not the right time.
2006-08-23 11:22:29
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answered by spottedtiger2002 1
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the best age to get married is after you have figured out what you want to do with your life, you have a job, and it will lead to better jobs or more money in the future, and you have no debt, and you have saved enough money for a down payment on a home, plus whatever the wedding is going to cost. Life is pretty expensive, and there are no money back guarantees.
Edit: I read half of all divorces end because of financial reasons. Basically, if money is not a problem, then that eliminates a lot of problems, and a lot of reason on why spouses get mad at each other, especially women. Women need to have a man that makes money. And a man without a job is the same as a man without a dickk
2006-08-23 07:24:04
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answered by misterpoopoocaca 1
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I think it depends on the man and the woman and their level of maturity. I'm not being a sexist when I say this but some men ususally don't mature until their late 20's early 30's, than again some never mature at all.
You have to make sure that you've enjoyed your single life and that your ready to commit to someone forever. Now in days people take marriage so lightly but it's a serious commitment that's a road of good and bad. You have to be mentally, emotionaly, spiritualy, and even physicaly ready for that ride through a journey called the MARRIED LIFE. Are you ready?
2006-08-23 07:25:31
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answered by cheryl_scott82 1
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About 23-27.
2006-08-23 07:24:20
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answered by Steven's Girl♥ 5
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it all depends on how mature you are. i know people that got married at 15 and are still going strong after 40 years, and then i know people that waited until 30ish and are divorced. think back to when you were about 13 and you knew in your head a age you desired to be married by. listen to that little voice again and that my dear is your answer. i myself was married at 22 and i wish i would of had waited a couple more years to get the partying and things i wanted to do out of the way. yes im still happily married but now i want to do things and he hates the fact!
2006-08-23 07:31:56
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answered by countrygalsline 2
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I THINK THE BEST AGE TO GET MARRIED IS WHEN YOU HAVE A CAREER OR A PERMANENT/STABLE JOB, I DONT THINK THERE IS AN EXACT AGE/OR BEST AGE TO GET MARRIED, IF YOU AND THAT PERSON ARE IN LOVE AND ARE SURE THAT YOU GUYS WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIFE TOGETHER THEN TALK ABOUT IT PLAN IT OUT AND GO FROM THERE!!!! GOOD LUCK!!! (BY THE WAY I AM 21 AND ABOUT TO GET MARRIED IN A MONTH!!! ITS THE MOST EXCITING FEELING!!!
2006-08-23 07:25:37
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answered by Juliet 2
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you can get married at any age. I personally like the sound of getting engaged at 22, and getting married at 23, and having my first child at 26 or 27.
2006-08-23 12:26:00
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answered by KC_Meag42 5
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I would say if you're still in high school not a good age to get married.But if you're out of school then any age is a good age to get married.just be getting married at age 18 or 19 because thats still to young to get married. best of luck
2006-08-23 08:03:30
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answered by Angel sent from heaven 5
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2006-08-23 07:22:14
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answered by ballerinagirl 2
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