Pour your heart out to her, lay it all out there. Then let her be the one to come to you. If she keeps stringing you both along, let her go.
2006-08-23 07:16:30
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answer #1
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answered by Bingo's Mommy 5
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The best thing to do is start looking at other girls- that always helps. If she knows she has both of you, that's going to continue for a long while- put yourself in her position. Wouldn't you like two girls competing for you? Look for other girls and still be nice to this one. She's gonna be unhappy if all the guy can do is take care of her.
2006-08-23 14:16:07
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answer #2
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answered by Anonymous
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Definetly no fighting over some chic. I mean think about it? Are you happy in the position your in? No right? The fact that she has you competeing should reveal to you that you deserve better. That's not a GOOD fight. It's a relentless fight. You deserve better so get better. She'll come back and by the time she does you won't even want her. You feel me?
2006-08-23 14:19:37
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answered by cheryl_scott82 1
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It doesn matter who can love her more, what matters is, who makes her feel more secure.
First u should stop acting needy. Stop gving her what she thinks she wants ( flowers, gifts, etc), if u ve doing that.
Second, you need to define if she has already made a decision and shes just keeping you as a backup, or because you give her things (which you re suppose to stop doing).
Third, now that you have stopped giving her stuff and you know she s still making up her mind. You need to prove her you re better than the other guy.
Dont compare yourself with the other. Act as if u know that you re better.
2006-08-23 14:25:16
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answered by Mr. E 3
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Don't give up till she has made her decision. It will look more admirable if you stay in it. Keep showing her how much she means to you and how how much you care. If she's a smart girl she'll go with who cares the most (you). i'd rather be with a guy who cares and loves me and enjoys spending time me.
2006-08-23 14:17:15
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answered by kjpierce08 2
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Deadline delivery method (I saw it on the Cosby Show)
Give her a deadline. Explain that you understand the situation (as you understand it). Tell her that you like her, but she is going to need to make a decision.
Give her (for example) until noon tomorrow to get back to you with her answer. If she doesn't get back to you, or gets back to you with an answer that you don't like... Never NEVER look back.
Don't ever pursue a girl that is not 100% interested. Do you want to be a chump ?
2006-08-23 14:19:40
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answered by Badspe11er 3
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Don't ever put yourself in a position of "fighting" over a girl. She is using both of you....I would give up the fight and find someone you can really fall in love with.
2006-08-23 14:14:48
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answered by gina_road 2
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If you have been doing all you can and not making any progress, evidently she is materialistic and probably looking for a person that can buy her stuff and not give her love. Let go of that battle and find someone that wants you and not your things.
2006-08-23 14:16:12
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answered by Miss. Tee98 4
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Let it go.
One of two things will happen. She'll see that you can't be played like that, and realize that she likes you. Sometimes, girls will draw things out until they are forced to choose (and you letting go will make her decide.)
Or, if you leave, she'll be able to take the time to make up her mind. Eventually, if she's going to pick you, she will. And she'll appreciate the fact that you didn't rush her into it.
2006-08-23 14:16:50
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answered by sara_busa 4
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Yes, I would say give up now. You'll either start to become an annoyance to her or she'll start using you. Or worse, you could get the reputation as a stalker if your attention is truly unwanted.
2006-08-23 14:15:52
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answered by ♥♥♥ Pink ♥♥♥ 3
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This girl is yanking you two around by the chains. Let the other guy have her, you deserve somebody that wants you....... She is having her cake and eating it too!
That is so not ok.
2006-08-23 14:17:02
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answered by Dre 3
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