My gf called me yesterday and told me that her Ex was feeling up on her and all that other ****. She said he wouldn't stop, but told me not to do anything to him except talk to him. Now I'm sure if any other guy was in this situation he would kick the other guys ***, but my GF knows how violent I can be in fights..I just don't know when to stop..what should I do about this. I'm glad my girl told me what happened, so I'm not as mad as I think I should be about it. I'm not mad at her as much as i'm mad at the other guy, because he knew about me, but I guess he doesn't see me as much of a threat to his well being. What should I do about this?
Also she was at a pool..public place..she wasn't alone..and all her friends saw..they told me what happened as well..and they told me not to fight too..
2006-08-23 07:07:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get rid of your girlfriend...she's full of it. If she really wanted this guy to stop she could have. In a public place full of other people??? You have your blinders on buddy.....
2006-08-23 07:10:36 · answer #1 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think your gf is two timing you.First she says her Ex was feeling up on her.If she had wanted she would have created some scene and would have told him to stop.But she did not because she liked it.She could have easily avoided this scene if she had wanted.Also she knew that if she does not say what had happened definitely some of her friends would have said to you about what had happened.So she called you and acted perfectly.So just because she informed about the matter to you before her friends,you now trust her more than before. She knew of your violent temper and did not want her Ex getting beaten up.So she wanted you to go soft on him.You should be mad at her as she could have avoided such a scene but instrad encouraged it.Nothing is going to be solved by your violence and fights.So start thinking.She could have avoided the scene and because she knew of her friends and that they will definitely report this incident to you,she called you and made sure you trust her.She also did not want her Ex being beaten up so she said dont do anything except talk to him.If she loved you she would have definitely kicked him in public and also made sure you did the same.Now how come her Ex could do such things in public without her consent?So they are in it together.Better you dump her.She cannot be trusted.
2006-08-23 07:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by rajan kumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, if it really bothered your gf, then she wouldn't care what you do to him, as long as he stopped. DUDE! Kick the s*** out of him. My hubby is violent also, but this guy once grabbed my a** at a public place. my hubby darn near killed him. I was glad. People don't touch me anymore.
P.s. it doesn'r sound like your girlfriend really cared about it. Or she would have and could have stopped it.
2006-08-23 07:14:02 · answer #3 · answered by butterfly_lilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah man, she definately could have stopped him if she really wanted to. I mean she was in public for christs sake. I would get rid of her just because you know it will happen again. Definately kick that guys *** on principle. Especially if he knew about you too, definately kick his ***.
2006-08-23 07:14:59 · answer #4 · answered by tjbaseballsaenz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him on, just have someone there to pull you off if you go too crazy.
Even in the crazty PC times we live in, sometimes men have to be men. If someone felt up my wife, you can be your *** that there would be no questioning what I would do.
2006-08-23 07:13:34 · answer #5 · answered by barter256 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice is this. don't stup to his level...chance are he is setting you up for a fight..he may think that your girl will think he is "cool" if he stands up to you, especially if you are hot headed..he knows how you will react. you should tell your girl to handle it. guys aren't going to stop hitting on your girl just because you say so, however if you make it known to her that she needs to stand up for herself and you are not going to do it for her, she may get mad. so explain like this: if you go to him chances are that you two are going to rumble and it wont be good, and probably just make him want to fight you even more. but if she confronts him and threatens sexual harassment charges, he will more than likely back off. she will look like a *****, but you wont!
2006-08-23 07:15:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't DO anything. Your girlfriend needs to stay away from him, or file charges against him. Get a restraining order or something. How old are you kids?
2006-08-23 07:10:49 · answer #7 · answered by gina_road 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just leave it alone for now, but, if it happens again..have a talk with him & maybe your girlfriend together!
2006-08-23 07:11:08 · answer #8 · answered by hippiechic35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is an azzzhole isnt he...I wouldnt do anything either...thats what he would want from you. He is jealous and pitiful...let him stay that way and you will be the better man for it.
2006-08-23 07:11:46 · answer #9 · answered by tpoke24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is trying to get u in trouble
no dude is gonna be feeling u up or **** like that unless u let the dude do it...
She s either a flirt or trying to make u jealous.
tell her to get over it and be a tough chick !
2006-08-23 07:13:11 · answer #10 · answered by yety21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him first, if he comes with an attitude, smash him in the f*ckin face
2006-08-23 07:14:43 · answer #11 · answered by woodersondylan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋