My ex says he still loves me but couldn't handle a long distance relationship after 6 mons...any advice?
My ex and I broke up when I left for college because the long-distance was too hard for him to handle. We remained very close friends and I still am madly in love with him. I recently found out he had a new girlfriend and it broke my heart. I told him I can't talk to him anymore and he broke down saying that he loves me and wants to be with me...its just so hard because I am so far away. He confessed his passion and love for me...saying that he wants to be with me but we are just both living separate lives right now. I don't know what to do because I still love him so much and strongly feel like we will get back together someday. Does he realy still love me and is using this new girl for sex? He calls me all the time to check in and see how I am..tells me he misses me ad everything. I am so confused and emotionally torn! Any advice?
2006-08-23 06:40:42 · 5 answers · asked by Tina S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He needs affection from someone who's within reach. I could never keep a long distance relationship either. Not because I didn't love the girl, but because it hurt to be so far away from the one you love. So he hooks up with someone to play with. It may or may not be serious. I wouln'd rush to judging it until you are both in a position to be able to have a non-long-distance relationship. In the meantime, you can look for someone else or you can stay loyal to him. Depends on how you feel. He may never come back to you. If you chose to stay alone, and he doesn't come back you would be pretty upset. You have to decide which road to take.
2006-08-23 06:49:08 · answer #1 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the key word here is "ex", are you saying ex-husband or ex-boyfriend? I've never heard of an "ex" referring to just two people who were friends or had a relationship. Mayibe the problem here is that you consider yourselves as having been married when you were together, but, in reality you both were just fooling yourselves.
The two of you split for a purpose; remember that purpose. A person never changes and if there was a reason for the split before, the same reason will be there again if you get back together. It sounds to me like you're confused; perhaps you had sex too early in life and don't know the difference in terminology, feelings, emotions, desires, and lust.
You are encouraging this guy and he in return is playing on your feelings and leading you on. Somebody, either one of you, should get a grip and stop this circular motion of lust. Face it, he has a girlfriend and more than likely he's doing the same thing to her.
Kick the bum to the curb and forget about him. He's a player and he will never be serious about you. .
2006-08-23 06:50:16 · answer #2 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 11:03:30 · answer #3 · answered by goverdhan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because long distance realitionships dont work
2006-08-23 06:42:01 · answer #4 · answered by cscollege07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him a pair of you panties . tell him to wear them if he does go to him and marry him he love you.
2006-08-23 06:44:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋