My mum and dad are away and my brother has just come home because he has no food in his house to eat the food here thats mine....he did it the weekend too (hes 26!!) when its gone i have to go out and buy more even though im not workin.
He leaves dishes in my sink until there are flies around them, he flicks ash in the cups too and even though i smoke i think its disgusting.
The other day he took my t-shirt to get his haircut in....when i was going out and lookin for it i rang him where he told me i had to come to him to collect it as he was having a drink!
Ive talready spoken to him but he is so arrogant he just gets aggresive.
This is just the things that have happened this week, he seems to be a constant head ache to me.
Do you have family memebers like this????
2006-08-23 06:37:33 · 15 answers · asked by P 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Peter
Unfortunately every family has one. Can you change the locks on the house?
I had a similar situation with my two sons, who were in the army together and stationed at the same base, same unit. My responsible son was constantly calling me and saying "Do you know what your son did now?" Same complaints as you, wearing his clothes, making a mess, not replacing anything, borrowing money and hanging out with him and his friends. He wouldn't get his own friends.
Sounds like your brother is a bully and he uses that to his advantage. Put a lock on your bedroom door and just let him know you are not interested in being a part of his life style. I know this isn't much help. Good Luck
2006-08-23 06:59:21 · answer #1 · answered by Annie R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hell yeah.. my brother is a pain im my @ss. So much so, that we do not speak and this is not the first time. We didnt talk for almost 5 years (we are only 28, oh yeah and twins) and now I havent spoken to him since june 2nd. I have no intention on doing so either..
Best advice: never let your brother borrow money because no matter how much he promises to pay you back he wont. My brother said that if I continued to "bother" him about the 200 bucks that he was going to blow my house up with my kids in it. he is an @sshole, and now im pissed off all over again!!!!!!
2006-08-23 06:45:14 · answer #2 · answered by psychstudent 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, I would have a heart to heart with your parents and tell them that you find the things that your brother is doing as inconsiderate and disgusting. Ask them what they think the best solution to this problem is. Also, I would just let your brother know as well that you find his disrespect for your parent and your property rude and that he shouldn't assume everything is his to do with as he pleases.
2006-08-23 06:45:56 · answer #3 · answered by rltouhe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your brother is a loser. I would call my parents and tell that what is going on. Who care if he calls you a tattle tail or any other name, he is a leach. I would also keep all non perishable food things hidden until your parents return and tell your brother to get the hell out.
2006-08-23 06:40:51 · answer #4 · answered by jtj 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i did have 3 brothers like that around 10 years ago, now they are all grown up and we all get on great - stick with it it will be fun again soon
promise
2006-08-23 06:41:55 · answer #5 · answered by Tink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup I have have a family member just like that. change the locks if you can (but let your parents know) or simply dont answer the door when he comes by.
2006-08-23 06:41:02 · answer #6 · answered by kingMe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what an A HOLE he is!
tell your parents cause he seems like an aggresive arrogant douche bag.
hes also very immature and needs to stop trying to manipulate and dominate you
2006-08-23 06:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he comes over again put laxatives in his food . you wont see him for a few days because he will be strapped to the toilet & he might think twice before comming over & eating your food again lol
2006-08-23 07:05:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was you i would do it to him and say well i,ve no food at home or make sure you,ve no food when he comes round then go shopping once he,s gone
2006-08-23 06:51:06 · answer #9 · answered by Julie T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no siblings, but I distance myself from annoying relatives.
2006-08-23 06:40:48 · answer #10 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋