WHY? Mental health question...Psychology question BELOW?

Question

I was born without a daddy... No pops, noone to show me how to work on the old chevy big block. I was raised by my mom and next to my sister, appartly both females. I am the tallest skinniest person anyone had ever seen before (6'6 and 130 lbs.) WOW!....I never had a girlfriend, why, not because I do not have confidence, because believe me I have over come that part a long time ago, its because noone wants to be next to a skelleton in the mall, epecially a smart skeleton with bad teeth and no previous experience in walking down the mall holding a girls hip. I can't even look a girl in the eyes and laugh, my teeth suck, i hate my body a hell of alot, I hate my friends who try to say all I need is this or all i need is that, how dare them for trying to help. They should let me rot in a solitary prison in a solitary place for a long time and not care and act like i was never there. Well this is how I feel alot of times. My adams apple loves to be the first thing people notice other than my height and weight, or maybe that just me, nope thats them for sure. Look, I dont need sympathy, just like you probably dont need sympathy for anything bad on you, all I ever wanted to know, and now i am making public. IS WHY?,

P.S. I fit the profile almost down to a tee of a serial killer, I dont want to be a serial killer, but if things dont start improving, I just might be forced to take a position of control, because that is the way the world works.

People say im smart, funny and talented. While this may be true, I dont care, I believe a thin line between negative and positive comments. They all suck in the long run

Answer 1

You don't want to know why, you want permission to BE.

Answer 2

Why? Well, I doubt the going postal part of your statement. Most, don't say things like that or think about it like you do.
You grew up without "pops," however, I know people whose "pops" where so evil that they were better off, but could't do anything about it, both dudes and dudettes. They, until today wear such huge psych scars that's all that they show to the world, now those are potential serials and with a good excuse.
I think that you may be just voicing out all the trapped ib feelings held in and brewing for years.
Of course, the last thing you need is sympathy. Just need someone to listen to you. I would also feel like the last mohikian if I were in your position. Don't fix me ! Just let me be and just be my friend, right?
Nothin' wrong with being thin though. I'd rather be that than the opposite to tell you the truth. The rest is just how I was made, and if you don't like me tough. Don't you think?
Hang in there, it is a good step what you are taking voicing it out.

Answer 3

Eat more... maybe you will gain weight. How old are you? If you are in highschool, I am not gonna lie and say that life is oh so much better when you get out, but in a lot of ways it is. People don't suck half as bad once you graduate. There isn't the same kind of social clicks that there are in high school, and people are more accepting of other people. Who cares if you are tall and skinny. It doesnt matter all that much. Its the same as people who are short and fat. It sounds like you have a bad attitude towards people, and that won't help you get a girl. Maybe I am just strange, but it sounds like you have the body type I like. Tall and scrawny, dont underestimate that. Like I said, you can eat more, and eventually (with age), your metabolizm will slow down and you will become a more normal wight. Dont stress too much, and dont hate yourself so much. People see that in others and it is something that turns them off. Good luck.

Answer 4

Get thee to a community mental health clinic ASAP!! in fact, call 'em up NOW. You'll be glad you did. You have an extreme degree of self-loathing that prevents you from interacting with the world in a healthy manner. This CAN be treated, and there IS hope. You don't have to feel this way! There are many wonderful new medications and treatment plans. You are not 'crazy', and you are NOT alone in this. You'd really be surprized how many people needlessly suffer because the don't have the courage to seek help. Seek help. Be well.......G.

Answer 5

change what do dont like about your appearance. Hire an escort to walk with you around the mall.

I think you DO have confidence issues. YOu are nitpicking at everything that is wrong with you. Who's to say its wrong? my husband is 6 foot 1 and he is a size 32 waist and i weigh more than he does. I love this man to death, and would never be the same if he wasnt a part of my life.

You need to be more confident... by you just saying it - doesnt convince me.

Answer 6

Gaining self-esteem is not as hard as you think, so why not start doing something about it right now. All steps, big and small, towards gaining self-esteem fall into two main categories: A) Avoid the negative and B) Accentuate the positive. Need more details?


http://www.emaxhealth.com/35/1297.html

Answer 7

"Half of life is 90% mental attitude" - Yogi Berra - well, almost, any way.

You change your attitude, you change your life. Sounds trite, I know. But it works. Braces or a retainer can help your teeth. Exercise can add some muscle. A better attitude is probably the hardest thing to add, but it'll probably help the most. Good luck!

Answer 8

If your teeth are so bad, have them pulled, I knew a gal 15 who did this. You gotta do what you gotta do. This may be part of your problem. You may have some poison in your system from your (bad) teeth. Cause of your slimness??? Then move on from there???

Answer 9

ur problem is about the confident u have.