Okay I love to lift weights! And there fore I have a lot of muscles. LOL I have more muscles then most of the men I know. would this be a turn off for you to be with a woman who has more muscles then you do? How would you react if you saw me?
2006-08-23 05:57:44 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not fat lol definitely not but if you saw the size of my tops you’d think i was to be able to get the shirt to be big enough to go over my arms and shoulders it has to be a 3x because i have so much muscles
2006-08-23 06:04:29 · update #1
little about me:
When I'm not lifting weghts I like to do Karate rock climb and out door sports but right now I am in college at night to become a vet's assistent and i work at dennys durring the day.
2006-08-23 06:15:24 · update #2
I'm happy with myself I just wanted to know what some guys would think of me
2006-08-23 06:19:22 · update #3
I usually like masculine women. There's nothing wrong with looking fit, and not even being muscular.
Yes, I admit, muscles on women do not look natural, but as long as YOU are comfortable with it, who cares?
In all seriousness, dear, why are you asking this question here? If you like yourself the way you are and the way you look, do not change. And I beg you: don't listen to these idiots. All they care about is your special 'equipment' and they don't know how to appreciate a woman as a whole.
Do you think a masculine man would change his physical appearance or become feminine just to accomodate your whises and tastes? No, they wouldn't. So you shouldn't change either.
You sound like someone who has a lot of self confidence and determination, so whatever you feel comfortable with, please don't give up on it for the sake of these idiots. Find someone who can truly appreciate you, whether you're muscular or feminine.
2006-08-23 06:08:37 · answer #1 · answered by Cheshire Riddle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like a woman with muscles. As long as you don't take steroids, I don't mind how much muscle you have. I always think that women who don't lift weights because the don't want to "bulk up" are just being stupid and lame. I'd probably think "here's a girl who has her priorities straight" if I saw you. Probably would think you're hot too :)
2006-08-23 06:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A fit woman is great, but there is the matter of too much of a good thing. Tone is very nice, beefcake is too manly for a lot of dudes. If you have more muscle than most dudes, than it will take a certain kind of guy to appreciate it. Hard to say, how I would react without actually seeing a picture, because everyones boundary for what is too much is different. Is this too vague?
2006-08-23 06:02:42 · answer #3 · answered by n2bateyou2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kinda like the idea of a girl that could bench press me, but realy I gues it would all depend on how you cary your self, do you dress like a Buch or are you big and sexy there is nothing wrong with being in great shape as long as you can pull it off be strong and femanin, are you a hard body or a big buff manly women
2006-08-23 06:25:20 · answer #4 · answered by ibpat38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on how big your muscles are. Schwarzenegger big then yes a turn off. As far as reaction a pic would help. Hope this helps.
2006-08-23 06:09:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be respectful especiall since building muscle in a woman's body requires lots of effort. However I much perfer soft and curves ..
2006-08-23 06:06:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn off for sure. In shape is GREAT but a lot of muscles makes women look masculine and that's gross
2006-08-23 06:01:55 · answer #7 · answered by curious caucasian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be a turn on. I like a lady with some muscles.
2006-08-23 08:28:26 · answer #8 · answered by David Rice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would still like you because you take it hard. And I have muscles so we can be the best of friends.
2006-08-23 06:02:21 · answer #9 · answered by Deonte L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
considering i cant see you, im not sure. i lift weights, and if your bigger than me, i probly wouldnt be too attracted to you. but a well toned girl isnt a bad thing. if your bulking up, i might try to cut back, and just tone. i am personally not a big fan of a girl who could kick my a$$. kinda takes away from my masculinity i guess. but thats just me.
2006-08-23 06:05:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋