.....when we had sex before. Plz help me.....
2006-08-23 05:47:29 · 20 answers · asked by Cupid 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Simple: sue him.
2006-08-23 05:48:42 · answer #1 · answered by Cheshire Riddle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depending on your age it is kind of hard since you obviously let the pic happen. If you show anger or attention then he will get what he wants. If you ignore it and act like nothing is happening he will lose the flavor of the event and it will blow over. Besides those that would look at it probably don't know you and don't care and if they do they should if they are real friends tell him that he is a low life jerk and to smash his own face in
2006-08-23 12:50:17 · answer #2 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard lesson to learn. Never have pictures taken, never! Anyone who wants those kind of pictures is perverse. Sorry.
DO NOT let him blackmail you. If you fear he will show the pictures to your parents, or new boyfriend, YOU be the one to tell those folks first what has been going on.
2nd, call the police right away - blackmailing is against the law.
2006-08-23 12:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it matter if the pic gets out? If not, don't sweat it. If it does, record a phone conversation with him black mailing you. Once you have it, let him know that you will contact your local PD and bring up charges of extortion against him. Ask for the pic back but realize that you may already be on the internet, and he may have made copies of it.
2006-08-23 12:51:30 · answer #4 · answered by makawao_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First what is he blackmailing you with and second tell you will go to the police. Next time be careful who you have sex with.
2006-08-23 12:50:22 · answer #5 · answered by lexxy l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blackmail is actually illegal. Go to the authorities. Maybe they can put some fear in him, and he'll turn them over. In the future think before you act--just a warning not a lecture.
2006-08-23 12:49:34 · answer #6 · answered by amish-robot 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Blackmailing you, how? I mean, who is he threatening to show it to? He sounds like an idiot, but that aside, ignore him. Really. So he shows it to your new guy, or even your parents. Aside from some embarrasment, what is going to happen? It's not like they can take away your birthday. If it happens, just say, "Hey, I made a really bad decision; one I now regret." Life goes on, and chances are, he isn't going to show anyone, anyway. Chin up, girl.
2006-08-23 12:48:51 · answer #7 · answered by working mom of 3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blackmail is illegal. File a police report and have him arrested. Also, get a court order of protection against him. Finally, sue him in civil court.
2006-08-23 12:49:38 · answer #8 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It made paris hilton's career. Just go with it.
She got all the fame for being a little sex pot, but since she didn't _mean_ for the video to get out, she's not considered a skanky porn store. Win-win!
2006-08-23 12:49:54 · answer #9 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police. Tell them exactly what is going on. They'll put a little recorder on you phone and you can NAIL the sorry you-know-what.
2006-08-23 12:50:47 · answer #10 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blackmail is a crime. Report him to the authorities.
2006-08-23 12:48:53 · answer #11 · answered by Private Account 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋