she asked me to date exclusively in that short time and then came back with my question....whats up?
2006-08-23 05:39:05 · 16 answers · asked by dman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Translation - "I used to like you, now I'm having second thoughts"
2006-08-23 05:41:31 · answer #1 · answered by heynow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should've asked her " what do you mean? " I say that because on the one hand I can understand where she's coming from to certain degree. I live an alternative lifestyle and many men aren't comfortable with that. They say things like, if we get serious, that'll have to stop. Once I realize they want to change me to fit what they want, I'll step back and tell them that I think we need to reevaluate the situation and not see each other so much.
My point is, its not totally a BS situation when a woman tell you that she needs some space from you to respect you. But you can't assess that unless she's specific as to why she wants/needs her space. Once you realize she's full **** (or not, to be fair LOL) feel free to date other women at your whim. Ensure she knows you're seeing other women so that she can't get the impression that she has you hanging on a string. For some women, they live to be in a position where they can exercise some sort of power over men. Not all women.. but some, maybe even more than that. And I'ma woman..
2006-08-23 05:48:03 · answer #2 · answered by Honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 00:47:00 · answer #3 · answered by pavoni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 2 dates, cut you losses. The girl is going to play games with you.
2006-08-23 05:44:05 · answer #4 · answered by smedrik 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What she really means is she likes you and wants to date only you, but if you dont want to be exclusive, then back off. If you don't want to date just her, then drop her. She sounds a little grade school to me.
2006-08-23 05:42:16 · answer #5 · answered by spidermonkeyfingers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the weirdest thing Ive ever heard a girl say before. I'm a girl and even I dont get it. I think she's bullshitting you and you should just forget about her. Besides if you act like you dont care she'll want you more....its just the way we are for some reason
2006-08-23 05:43:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has decided she wants to move on or someone else has caught her eye
so in order to respect her I ould step away for a bit and date someone else -Have fun steping out with someone new
2006-08-23 05:42:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she seems like she is confused.. ask her about it. Give her a day or two and then ask her what she meant by it.
I would guess that she is confused about her feelings or you did something that slightly upset her (only because the respect part)
2006-08-23 05:41:38 · answer #8 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and give her the space as she may have issues that you do not need to deal with!!!
2006-08-23 05:41:37 · answer #9 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is turning her off, or she has possibly found someone else. Ditch her and find someone who is serious about you.
2006-08-23 05:41:52 · answer #10 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋