When it comes to relationships do you go for the person that you will always have feelings for even if you dont know where you stand(heart) or do you go for the person who likes you and shows it(head)knowing that it isnt love yet? Do you take the risk? Or move on?
2006-08-23 05:35:37 · 30 answers · asked by tatiana u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need heart and head . need both it will be tough to have only one of those.
2006-08-23 05:37:27 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ lavender baby ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Both!
I know it's kind of confusing but you should listen to you head and you heart at the same time cause sometimes your heart doesn't think of logic and that's why we end up hurt at times!
If it's something or someone you feel strongly about don't just put all your feeling out there to start with take sometime to feel them out and make sure that you won't make a fool out of your self by saying how you feel!
I think that you should never leave the one you love for the one you like cause the one you like will always leave you for the one they love!
2006-08-23 12:42:36 · answer #2 · answered by Bunnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use common sense BUT I mostly follow my heart and intuition...I could NEVER be with anyone that I didn't totally LOVE.....actually right now I am in a similiar situation....I have known this man for 5 yrs. and dated him for 3 1/2 steadily, then he met someone else and broke up with me....we started talking after THEY broke up and he poured his heart out to me...we have always been "best friends" and are still attracted to eachother, have had sex a few times since his last breakup but all we really do is hang out, go on camping trips, take long trips together, spend each and every day together and are totally comfortable with eachother....I LOVE him with all my heart and soul....and I always will...I have been looking for someone like him my whole life but he only wants to "friends" now....I can't understand this because we share everything together and I would think that he would rather be with someone like me vrs. the kind of women that he sometimes ends up with ......married women, materialistic women, women who are emotionally unavailable to him....but this seems to be what he ends up with...it's so sad but the love I have for him is unconditional and I would lay my life down for him (there's not too many people you can say that about) the only reason I would stop all contact with him is if he abused me in any way, mentally or physically but he's not like this at all...he's taught me so much and has helped me to be a better person, I've learned to appreciate so many things because of him and I've realized what the important things in life are....am I open to the prospect of possibly meeting someone else if I come across the oppurtunity...Yes...I am but I'm not "looking" necessarily..I have found something in my true "love" that I'm not willing to give up, even if I can't have him physically....we share something special that I don't think too many people could even possibly understand.....but I understand and at least I can say that I know the true meaning of LOVE and everything that comes along with it...ups and downs....I just wish that someday, he will realize this!
I will always RISK because that way I can never say "what if?"
I hope this sort of answers your question!!
Good Luck!
2006-08-23 13:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by Blue_Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to believe (unreal) you will let your "heart" rule, but the reality is the "head" because in there you have a mind who will give you the right answer. If we let outselves go by the heart, be believe whatever we want too. If he really feels something for you, it would of told you already. I think you should look forward to another relationship. GOOD LUCK
2006-08-23 12:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by ladydi9red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually follow my heart until its shattered in a million pieces and then the head kicks in and I get myself out of the situation. Granted I should have gotten out sooner but never the less I get out. I still have not gotten to point of settling for the guy that love me but I dont love him. Its probably the best way to go.
2006-08-23 12:41:22 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! I always end following my heart. In my case my heart is the one telling me to act on my impluse, thus acting irrationally and not thinking clearly and avoiding considering all factors of my current situation. I really wish I could always foloow my head and avoid heart breaks.
2006-08-23 12:50:51 · answer #6 · answered by Bittersweet_emotions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always follow my heart because your head makes you go crazy. You can sit and analyze the situation forever, but your heart knows what will make you happy.
2006-08-23 12:38:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
From experience I have had the opportunity to go with my heart and head. If given a choice again, I would go with my head. Because the heart can misleading.
2006-08-23 12:38:10 · answer #8 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I typically follow my heart, but in the scenario you are describing I think I would give the person a chance if he is really into you. Maybe the person who is not into you will see what he or she missed out on. There lose
2006-08-23 12:39:17 · answer #9 · answered by Injunswife 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go for the one who loves you the most. They will teach you about love. Then later on, if it doesn't work out for whatever reason, you have grown as a person
2006-08-23 12:38:22 · answer #10 · answered by aggie babe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Initially I use the head and if the heart follows so be it
2006-08-23 12:38:06 · answer #11 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋