She sniffs and clears her throat ALL THE TIME. She's been doing this for as long as I can remember, and it's every minute of every day. It REALLY grates on my nerves and it keeps me from spending as much time with her as I would like. Is there any way I can get over this??? Do you know anyone who does this??
2006-08-23 05:34:28 · 19 answers · asked by alwaysright 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i try to "ignore it" but once i notice her doing it, i can't
2006-08-23 05:44:28 · update #1
Tim - maybe YOU should grow up. I read some of your questions.....ever heard that saying "those who live in glass houses....."
2006-08-23 05:49:22 · update #2
She probably has sinus problems. Constantly dripping sinuses would cause the actions you described and she's been suffering with it so long, she doesn't realize it or know there's any option to putting up with it.
The next time she visits her doctor, offer to go with her and mention this to the doctor. He may be able to give her sinus pills or recommend she use a product like Tylonel Sinus to solve the problem. I'm sure she'd be very grateful!
2006-08-23 05:43:20 · answer #1 · answered by dragonwing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried asking her if she's even aware of her nervous ticks? Because she's family, you can get away with asking her about it. It's harder to approach someone you work with who have similar problems (I worked with a girl who would shush people constantly b/c she got so used to doing it to her students, and I have a friend who does a quick cough every time she comes in the room- that's just the START of her habitual ticks). Tell your grandmother that you've noticed she has a habit of sniffing and clearing her throat and ask how that came about. It'll open the dialog and make her aware of her habit. Maybe she'll make a conscious effort to change.
2006-08-23 16:16:49 · answer #2 · answered by elizabeth_ashley44 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to ignore it. You don't know how long you will have your grandmother and you have to enjoy her for as long as you can. This is a small price to pay for spending time with her. Besides, you have no idea what habits you will develop when you're her age.
2006-08-23 12:39:20 · answer #3 · answered by Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This could be a form of a reflux disease. Some older people develop swallowing difficulties (especially with a history of smokes or mini-strokes (TIA's)). Basically, she could be "swallowing" small bits of food/drink down the "wrong pipe," causing her to continually try to dislodge the food/water from her esophagus.
Also, it could be a perpetual allergy. People who are allergic to dust, dander, or other indoor pollutants are often continually plagued with a dry, itchy throat.
Hope that helps!
2006-08-23 16:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by Jujube 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I worked with a lady who did that. It is annoying. Maybe your grandma does not realize she does it. It could just be a habit. Have you asked her about it?? I said something to the women at work. She just started doing it more. Although she loves to annoy people. Seriously sometimes people do not even realize they are doing something.
2006-08-23 12:41:25 · answer #5 · answered by hello 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel. It always looks like my grandmother is chewing gum... she's not. She is older though and I know that she won't be around for ever. It's a gross habit, but I would just overlook it. Not much else you can do besides offer her a tissue.
2006-08-23 12:54:08 · answer #6 · answered by jtj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My GM had "issues" also and so did my mom, but you would be surprised what you can actually put up with, once the whole thing is silent. If you know what I mean. Maybe ask you GM does something bother her or does something hurt. Otherwise, good luck with it.
2006-08-23 12:53:48 · answer #7 · answered by Barbie doll lover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pass her a box of tissuses. Just try to ignore it. You may not have as much time with her as you think so take every chance you can get with her.
2006-08-23 12:37:31 · answer #8 · answered by um yea hi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All grandmothers have annoying habits. Mine chewed gum constantly, and poped her dentures in the process. I hated it for years, but she died 4 months ago..and I miss it now. Ironic isn't it?
2006-08-23 12:38:05 · answer #9 · answered by spidermonkeyfingers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her water when you're around. Oh some Ricola cranberry flavored drops would help too .. plus she'll think you're extra sweet. Vitamin filled delicious candy!
2006-08-23 12:40:49 · answer #10 · answered by auniquekind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋