Okay, here goes... I was involved with someone who had a woman. I had just gotten out of a relationship and he manipulated me into bed. I could have stopped it there but I didn't. This man made me feel so good after feeling so bad for so long(3 1/2 yrs). He would tell me that we were going to be together, etc. Well, he obviously lied and I know that I probably should have know I was being played but I let my heart take the lead. He hasn't called me or contacted me in any way except through friends to get some of his things back. I haven't contacted him either, I just need some closure on the situation. I knew that he was involved with someone else so I know that some people will think that I got what I deserved. I just want to know why he did and said some things. I just wanted him to be honest with me and he wasn't. I want to know why he would do this to me knowing the situation. So, what do you guys think, should I email him and hope for a response or just let it go?
2006-08-23 05:20:59 · 8 answers · asked by carriemehome25 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO NO NO NO NO. Leave it alone. You got hurt and i can understand that bothers you, but do not make this into a scene from days of our lives. He wasn't honest, he was just looking to get you into bed, it sucks i know, but you have to move on. This kinda of drama is not needed, let it pass and in the future look out for guys like him. If your paths cross in the future, then you could ask him those questions but do not email or do not pursue this.
2006-08-23 05:25:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, knowing that he was with someone should have told you to leave him alone. Second, he did not "manipulate" you into bed. You went willingly. Third, you did not "just get out of a relationship". It had been 3 1/2 years. The reason why he said and did those things was just to get you into bed. You don't need closure. You need to move on. Let it go. Forget about him. I'm sure he's already forgotten about you.
2006-08-23 12:28:48 · answer #2 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. You aren't the first person he has done this to. Some people are just not capable of telling the truth. Many people like to play games and he is one of them. Don't believe everything you hear from a man especially when they have someone else on the side. Since he is a player he is at risk of stds and now you may be another statistic. Try to put your life back together.....go to support groups. Do the things you like to do....if you have a hobby get more involved with it. Don't jump at the first chance with a man who offers you affection because you don't know what his intentions are. Play the field for awhile.
2006-08-23 12:29:25 · answer #3 · answered by lexxy l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl i think you shud just let it go.... if he comes back then u talk to him but other than that , give it a rest. u got hurt once, twice....take some time off and concentrate on you. enjoy life for a while as a single person. start over fresh when u feel that u have all your feeling and emotion on a good level.
2006-08-23 12:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by Honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would only put yourself and a worse situation if you try to contact him. Men like him don't care about anyone but themselves. You need to move on and find someone who will be single and will respect u. How can u expect a cheater not to lie and cheat on u?!
2006-08-23 12:29:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go and move on, you deserve your OWN man and this guy obvioiusly cheated on the girl he is with and what makes you think that he wouldn't do that to you??
2006-08-23 12:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by auzzimama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life's short...so dont waste it gal..
1st, change your number and move away from his frens, throw away his things..if the things are great, sell them in exchange for cash..and go for a holiday wiv the money..
To put it simply, just forget him and stay happy alwayZ....Cheerio!!
2006-08-23 12:28:09 · answer #7 · answered by nadia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should email to see what he is doing
2006-08-23 12:23:55 · answer #8 · answered by sarah b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋