and over a year ,but who desperatly wants to get back on the dating seen . but has been traumatictly hurt and is scared of wonuding her heart again .and every guy she meets she pushes them away
2006-08-23 05:19:53 · 19 answers · asked by baglady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That blows...guess it is up to HER to figure out what she wants. Maybe she should be a nun.
2006-08-23 05:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well hon, you need to love yourself first and foremost. Let no man judge your self worth but yourself!!
So it didn't work out...big deal..you just THINK he was the love of your life but you will find yourself thinking I can't believe I wasted a tear on that moron...years down the road believe me.
Don't be afraid to love again...in fact go out there and have yourself a few romps in the hay with guys that don't matter...sorry to say it but better you make the mistake with them than someone you do like! LOL
Just get yourself back in practice girlfriend and it will bring back some self confidence...you won't be hurting anyone (cause they're just out for some fun too) and you will learn you still got it and then some and get some self respect and confidence in yourself. Only when you know who you are, can you really find someone that is compatible with you. Don't just land in anyone's bed and think that is love...nuh uh...doesn't work that way.
2006-08-23 05:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by EVE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to pack up that last relationship and put that baggage away
relationships hurt but if you do not keep trying then you will never find the one that works
just do not get to emotionally involved right away
take time and do NOT make every new guy you meet pay for the old guys mistakes
you can have sex with anyone this is not about sex this is about you moveing on
2006-08-23 05:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can tell you is that without risk there is no closeness no special bond. Nobody can guarantee that she won't get her heart broken again, but if she doesn't take that risk then she will fall into a pattern of distrust and paranoia and in the process miss out on a lot of the great things that comes with being with someone.
2006-08-23 05:29:25 · answer #4 · answered by Dr.C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it and realize that every experience u go through becomes a life learned lesson.. u can't treat every guy bad because of one bad apple.. there r many more in the tree and the only way to find them is to pick one and taste it.. if u don't like it throw it away and reach for another...
don't live in fear of being hurt again because a relationship comes w/pain and love... just use what u learned to get what u want...
2006-08-23 05:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself time to heal. Time does not heal all wounds as the saying goes. If you are happier without sex, then why bother? It sounds like you are afraid to trust a man, which is understandable. But sooner or later you'll meet the right man that God intended for you and you'll be ok. Ask God to heal your wound and help you find that Mr. right.
2006-08-23 05:24:41 · answer #6 · answered by preachingmissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would give your realtionship time take it easy
i would say get back in the dating scene
i would also tell ther person to get over there anxiety sounds like anxiety to me
if a guy is persiting her to have sex with him and she doesnt want to
she needs to make it clear to whom the guy she is at the time with
no means no
she also needs to no sex is a vitual important thing in life in a realtionship its not a evil thing
if she wants a boyfriend she shouldnt push them away or she will properly end up being depressed any lonely
2006-08-23 05:28:11 · answer #7 · answered by Shane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its sex you want find a cuddle buddy. if its a relationship your gonna have to try to trust someone at some point . just keep your guard up with men and try to as honest as possible with them maybe on the second or third date let them know what you are looking for .
2006-08-23 05:24:27 · answer #8 · answered by mrs_womble2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody is not the same. Give them a chance. Don't take it too seriously. Be friends with everyone. Love will come itself.
2006-08-23 05:24:23 · answer #9 · answered by skynotblue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her to take it easy.if you are not ready for commitment,that doesn't have to mean that you can't have sex.Unless ofcourse you believe they are one in the same.Guard your heart,and be careful who you trust it to.Be equally as careful with your body,if you fall in love easily.
2006-08-23 05:24:40 · answer #10 · answered by girlqueen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can choose to life alone and be unhappy or loosen up and live your life not everything will be roses but more of them will
2006-08-23 05:22:49 · answer #11 · answered by freeatlastboone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋