So I met this guy on vacation about 3 weeks ago who happened to live in the same city as me. He called me when we were both back from vaca and asked me out. we went on a date and had a really great time. He called a few days later and asked to meet me after work for a drink. i was busy but told him i would meet up with him at some point during the night. i went and had a great time again. he called the next day and said that he was going to be out of town for about a week and that he would call me when he got back.. well he is back now and he called and I am seeing him tonight. I really really like him but dont want to scare him. I have been burned pretty bad in the past and am scared that this is all just going to end. Should I tell him how I feel or is it too soon?
2006-08-23 05:09:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Too soon-- wait or yoy might scare him off.Let him be the one to tell you first
2006-08-23 05:11:05 · answer #1 · answered by j_911_rhoads 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds to me like this guy is wanting to keep this going so maybe go on a couple more dates. I'm hoping this guy has at least kissed you, maybe a goodnight kiss or something. You shouldn't be too straighforward, just drop hints. But don't drop hints that might lead to something you don't want yet in the relationship such a sex. Just drops hints to let him know you are wanting a relationship or discuss with him the minor feelings instead of revealing that your falling hard for him.
I hope this will help...
Good Luck with w/e happens
2006-08-23 05:16:46 · answer #2 · answered by Little_Rebel_03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no no... do not tell him how you feel. My suggestion is to
Enjoy the moments with him. Key word the "moment". If you have more than that moment, enjoy it as well. Let the relationship build at it's pace and try not to "see ahead". This is a mistake/trap some folks fall in to. They feel they have to after such and such a time feel or act a certain way - wrong. Again...
Enjoy the moments with him! Life is too short to worry about what might or might not happen.
2006-08-23 05:14:04 · answer #3 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh he likes you!! He calls you when he says he is going to, he even ask you out for drinks after work. That is how me and by boyfriend started out and we have been togethor for 3 years now. I think you should wait a couple more weeks and if he is still acting the same way go ahead and tell him. What can you lose.
2006-08-23 05:19:30 · answer #4 · answered by believesucceedfanfare 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way too soon. I would suspect you usually move pretty quickly and maybe that is why you get burned. When you fall too hard and too fast you usually will miss any warning signs there might be. Also you should wait for him to tell you how he feels first. Men have to work for what they want or else they will take it for granted. Play it cool.
2006-08-23 05:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell him how you feel, you are def going to scare the crap out of him. He'll think you're crazy. Just take things slowly and don't fall too hard too fast. It sounds like he likes you, but you never know with guys, so be careful.
2006-08-23 05:48:02 · answer #6 · answered by Yen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too soon!
Maybe try going out with him and a few friends? See how you feel about him when you aren't on a romantic date, but in a more relaxed setting?
2006-08-23 05:12:25 · answer #7 · answered by eternitys_hour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too soon, keep spending time with him and see what happens, its always good for a good relationship to start out with a friendship bond. u both will know when its right.
2006-08-23 05:13:12 · answer #8 · answered by meme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont tell him you love him give it some time to see if he feels the same way it sounds like he might cause he keeps calling you. don't propose marriage just yet!
2006-08-23 05:12:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hold off for a while and do some enjoying the moment and let time answer the question you have
2006-08-23 05:11:19 · answer #10 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋