I have been with my boyfriend for almost 1 year and now he doesn't want to be with me, everything will be going fine and then all the sudden he'll say he doesn't think it is working or it will work. I love him so much and i want to be with him, I need to know how to get over him, because i want to call him and see him and it is hard not to pick up the phone and call him. He has never cheated, but i have caught him in lies before. Do i get over him or what do i do, i don't know?
2006-08-23 05:06:23 · 9 answers · asked by amw121899 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
keep urself busy, make new friends or spend more time with ur existing friends, talk urself out of calling him, think of all the mean things he had said or done, engage in out door activities, tell urself uve got to move on, tell ur best friend to keep u from calling him...its hard at first but it will surely fade away
2006-08-23 05:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by yellow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to get over him. And the best way to do it is by cutting all ties you have with him. When you go to pick up the phone to call him, call a good friend instead. It worked for me and I was with my bf for 5 years. And keep yourself busy by going out with your friends or working out or something. One day you will wake up and he wont be the first thing on your mind, trust me.
2006-08-23 12:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by Yen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over him. He is only staying wtih you because of guilt and resenting you for it. Let him go and move on. Get to know who you are before you get so into a guy again. Guys don't like it when a girl is too dependent on them.
2006-08-23 12:09:37 · answer #3 · answered by EVE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over him 1 day at a time
2006-08-23 12:07:51 · answer #4 · answered by brian h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so bothered about him, if you have already caught him in lies then its better to leave him now rather than crying afterwards, you still have many options,
best of luck.
2006-08-23 12:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over him & focus & concentrate on u and getting your life back in order. trust there are other guys out there that will come along. and you will be glad u did because there is always better you just got to give yourself a chance to love again
2006-08-23 12:10:33 · answer #6 · answered by meme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new better b/f. If he thinks you found a new man he might be jelous and want you back.
2006-08-23 12:11:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can only take one day at a time. i know its hard because ive been there. you just have to let go.
2006-08-23 12:10:20 · answer #8 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to get over him really takes time. occupy urself, make urself busy so u wont hav d time to think of him. it works!
2006-08-23 12:12:49 · answer #9 · answered by LiNgz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋