when you meet a guy on a casual basis, are they really into you or is it just sex???if they are genuinley interested how can you tell???is it normal for blokes to keep it casual for a bit before suggesting a full on relationship???
2006-08-23 04:38:57 · 24 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i wish i knew the answer to that!! I'm wondering the same thing.. guys talk to me all the time and show interest.. but I don't know if it's just sex or if they really want me.
2006-08-23 04:40:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be one or the other, some just want sex and some really like you. Not sure if many men would do casual before serious, I know I wouldn't, but then one day some guy you've been seeing might turn around and say he's in love with you.
Hmm wish I could get a 21 year old!
2006-08-23 11:44:34 · answer #2 · answered by Gavin T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See its the other way round for me
I am a single dad and quite old (46) I have this strange disease of being nice and interested, but most girls ( admittedly I do seem to end up with younger girls 21-35) seem to want the sex bit and not so much the relationship Mind you I am probably boring
2006-08-23 11:44:04 · answer #3 · answered by greydays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is casual it doesn't always have to be sex, he could just like you as well you. if he really wants you as a mate then he will try to touch your arm or always want to be with you (talk, text, aim, etc.). it is somewhat usual for them to get to know you but it just depends on the guy. don't read to much into the relationship, dont' make it too complicated, you will stress it and then it might not even work out and then you will become unattractive to him. KEEP IT SIMPLE!!!!!
2006-08-23 11:51:42 · answer #4 · answered by qtsasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy... Perosnally, if I am interested in a person... then I am wanting a long-term relationship with them... And even if we do have sex on the first date, second one... I'm one guy that has sex with only those that I'm interested in and not messing around just for sex....
Now, for the majority of the male population... They are just wanting to get a little piece of the action... but does that suprise you any?
2006-08-23 11:42:27 · answer #5 · answered by Rob D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually they have to do something for you. like buy you dinner or go to some event. this breaks the ice between you. if some guy just hits on you right away suggesting sex that is so cheap and insulting. but nothing wrong with a compliment to you like he could say wow! you have the most beautiful eyes I have ever seen. something like that is ok.
it depends on the girl. some women like a man to be agressive but most don't. it also depends on how you want a guy to treat you.
2006-08-23 11:44:50 · answer #6 · answered by chris a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with "Kat". Unfortunately I dated a guy for 2 months and I thought it was going great until he another cute girl caught his eye and I was history....Unfortunately, most of the time all guys care about is sex and that's just sad...there's more to a relationship then just sex.
2006-08-23 11:49:39 · answer #7 · answered by ugafan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is virtually unheard of for a casual "just sex" relationship to change into a full on relationship.
2006-08-23 11:41:44 · answer #8 · answered by Iain T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have never known any of my mates be the one to suggest a full on relationship, maybe just a casual relationship but nothing that will tie them down, might be cos none of them have got married yet but hey
2006-08-23 11:42:21 · answer #9 · answered by Dead2TheWind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hope from the male gender point of view that they will say, interested in finding out more about you. But, I'm sure there is some that will say just for sex. Personally, it's finding out about someone first.
2006-08-23 11:43:30 · answer #10 · answered by loser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋