Was having this conversation with a girlfriend. We both faced similar situations recently:
She: met this guy in a bar, on a night out with a friend. He seemed very interested and at the end of the night insisted on getting her phone no. (cause he "wanted to get to know her better"). He never called...
Me: had great fun with this guy on a night out. When time came to say our goodbyes, I made no mention of exchanging contact details. He asked for a pen and paper, gave me his e-mail and said :"in case you feel like dropping me a line". I sent a little casual mail to which he never responded...
Makes any sense to you? Male input (obviously) especially welcome:)
2006-08-23 04:37:01 · 6 answers · asked by lillith_va 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Footnote:
The question is based on a no of seperate experiences from a no. of different people (recounted through the years..lol).
The above, most recent examples are just used as cases in point.
It is extremely interesting to get a glimpse into the male psyche...Thanx pooltitan11:)
Keep it coming guys!
2006-08-23 04:55:01 · update #1
Samiad2006: Could very likely be the case (and to be honest, being a woman I might even be tempted to do it at one point or the other:)).
However, what if:
it's time to say good bye, the girl doesn't really seem to give a damn where you go or what you do the next day (seeing the thing for what it is: a one-night stand), she is ready to call it a day and just then...you decide to give her your details?
Why do that?
2006-08-23 05:04:08 · update #2
To be honest....it may hurt but, that night you may seem like the greatest thing since sliced bread. We're at a bar, having a good time, a couple drinks, chatting it up...but then we get back to work on monday and the girl in the bakery a couple blocks down is still eyeing you....you completely forget about the girl you met at the bar. Also, you have to just keep getting out there and being active...the more you date or meet people and exchange numbers or emails, the more opportunities you have. don't base a judgement on two experiences. also, most guys don't want to call a girl they met at a bar, because most guys want to go home with a girl from the bar that night, but don't want to date a girl from a bar, as great as she may be. It'd have to be one amazing evening to where i left to get coffee or a slice of pizza for me to call a girl back from a bar.
2006-08-23 04:43:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
men like to get numbers or emails to boost their egos. If they are not really interested, they won't call or write. They are probably too busy anyway getting someone else's # the next day.
2006-08-23 11:45:41 · answer #2 · answered by venus11224 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a way to end a chat without saying "*******"
guys like to brag "yeah she gave me her # she wants it"
2006-08-23 11:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
either he lost the # or he used u to boost his ego
2006-08-23 11:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys find it too expensive to say 'you are not the one'...or 'im not interested'
2006-08-23 11:46:29 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Luck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
exploratory contact
2006-08-23 11:42:17 · answer #6 · answered by hsarora47 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋