I think the question is pretty self explanatory...
2006-08-23 04:35:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The most important thing to look for in a guy whom you want a long term relationship with is.. being able to talk to each other. conversation last a lot longer in life than wanting sex..
Sex to some are very important too so keep it in mind but it isn't most important..
Trusting the person is the next priority.. if you can't trust them it will never last.
And unconditional love is way up there the idea of wanting to be with one person and one person only for the rest of your life.
Being able to enjoy each others company..
just being able to sit on the couch or chair with someone being held. with out them wanting sex .. just simple holding..
something always nice being said with out all the negative .
New ideas of what you can do together all the time or just the same old stuff as long as it is done together.
that is the components of a long lasting relationship. mainly the being able to talk about anything together.
2006-08-23 04:45:50 · answer #1 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A guy that is REAL about his feelings. A guy who doesn't RUSH into saying I love you. A guy who could careless if sex is part of the package of dating a girl or not, and a guy who is honest, loyal, and good hearted. NOT someone that will tell you what he thinks you want to hear, but will tell you what is really on his mind and what is REALLY going on with him. NOT a guy that just wants a long term relationship, but a guy who is wanting his life long PARTNER. JUST BE REAL. And a guy not afraid to live his life as an open book, with nothing to hide. BLessed be.
2006-08-23 11:41:30 · answer #2 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Someone who is true about thereself,honest, reliable,handsome,intelligent,has a sense of humor,smells good,someone who is not afraid of a challenge,someone who is not timid of an extremely hot woman with a great career, must be naughty at times and you must have a very eventfull life, cause i get bored fast.
2006-08-23 11:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by sally 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's my list:
-can keep a steady job (longer than 3-6 mo.)
-has long term goals he is working towards
-has morals which he practices
-Christian
-currently in college/or college grad.
-sincerity/honesty
-knows how to responsibly manage money (saves)
-respects others/kind
-likes to do new things/experience the world
-is great with hids
-SENSE OF HUMOR (MUST be able to make me laugh)
-does productive/interesting things in his free time
-family is very important to him
2006-08-23 11:48:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has to be a good person, and be able to argue with me sometimes. A sense of humuor is an absolute necessity!
2006-08-23 11:38:41 · answer #5 · answered by Lex 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It has to be the right guy other wise there is no way. he has to be a jock, sort of smart, and he has to be very funny to make me laugh. the guys i have dated were very funny and we always had funny together
2006-08-23 11:41:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
someone who listens, even when i am babbling. he has to be able to have a conversation, and be charming. good looks are icing on the cake.
2006-08-23 11:39:49 · answer #7 · answered by advicemom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honesty, integrity, humor and intelligence....a nice a s s doesn't hurt either!
2006-08-23 11:38:15 · answer #8 · answered by whiskeygrl319 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
money, money,money, no just kidding, a nice personality, likes me for me, likes to have fun, not to serios, semi good looks.Have a kind heart.
2006-08-23 11:43:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he has to be my best buddy. good set of morales and sensibility. i like people with controlled emotions.
2006-08-23 11:43:22 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Luck 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋