You know, there's always this girl that every guy turns around to see. Usually she's in her mid-teens to her late 20s, but the guys staring at her are from young school boys to guys in their 50s.
2006-08-23 04:35:08 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
it get's kind of annoying after a while.
2006-08-23 04:36:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey,I`m in my late 30`s and male/females stare at me.It`s not that I wear overly provocative tops,but because I`m big.Recently I went out and most guys were perving.Why should I wear a sack.People judge big boobed women unfairly.Flat chested women often wear really revealing tops.Whereas I wouldn`t be able to get away with it.It doesn`t bother me the staring.I dont particularly like other women being bitchy though .I`m pretty unapproachable so guys wouldn`t dare chat me up (I dont like eye contact),but it`s amusing hearing 15 year olds hanging around and talking about Kate Bush (older woman) coz I`ve got long hair !!! as if they`d remember the eighties.Trying to be older than they were.Why the hell would a female enjoy being oogled at !? Most aren`t that sad.Men are the ooglers,desperate to see something while their partners are next to them.Just standing there pathetically leering up some woman`s skirt !!
2006-08-23 05:10:12 · answer #2 · answered by JULIA E 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i agree with Eric. It's only creepy when an ugly guy is staring. I don't mind being oogled. especially when i walk out of the house knowing i look hot. like when i just got my hair done, or i'm wearing an awesome outfit. or i just found out i can fit into my skinny pants again. Then there are days when i feel blah, and i really don't feel pretty enough to be oogled, and that weirdo keeps staring.
2006-08-23 04:57:15 · answer #3 · answered by Bella 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well what are you wearing? If you are dressed appropriately, meaning covering the boosoms and the butt cheeks, then they won't oogle as much. At my age, I'd love to get oogles, maybe I should get a halter top and some daisy dukes, never!
2006-08-31 04:44:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are times i want to be looked at... oogled at if you will, for instance if i am all dressed up and looking nice and at a club or bar making myself the center of attention, but if i am walking across the GD street to get a slushie and some dumb a** guy cutting the grass stops what he is doing and tells all his friends to lok at me, then no i hate that s**t, especially since thay are speaking in espanol and i don't understand them.
but if i was at a club putting myself in that position, then i can't complain if people look. however if i am with my man, you better back off... haha
2006-08-30 09:56:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looked at with admiration yes but looked at like I'm a bone and you are all hungry dogs no.and any old man that stares at a teenager needs his brain examined.hes a pervert or worse.I don't think any women /girls mind being looked at with a look of maybe awe but I don't like what I know some guys may be thinking.Its almost like being mind raped.........
2006-08-30 09:09:07 · answer #6 · answered by Yakuza 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't mind being checked out, especially if I am dressing to draw attention. I have some great ink that I am very proud of and think it is more than ok to check me out. I think I am an attractive individual and have no issue at all with others thinking so. However, I don't get offended if no one stares! I also have gotten some negativity from my tattoos as well, but everyone is entitled to their opinion.
2006-08-23 07:10:42 · answer #7 · answered by Sterling 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm with the first responder - it get's annoying after a while. It's one thing to look & appreciate - it's another thing to stare & drool like a dog. And to grunt & groan & look the girl up & down is more of an insult than a compliment to her beauty.
2006-08-23 04:37:36 · answer #8 · answered by eliziam 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends on who's doing the oogling.
2006-08-23 04:38:57 · answer #9 · answered by MAC Dodge 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the look.
It's always nice when you see that guys do notice you. A smile and once over is always nice.
But when they stare at you and you can feel them undress you with their eyes, it's quite uncomfortable.
2006-08-28 08:16:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it's so unclassy, and uncomfortable period, especially if the nasty men just look at your chest when they are talking to you, I just end the conversation and turn around, it is so disgusting!! When will men grow up? Some are so incredibly retarded.
2006-08-27 19:04:38 · answer #11 · answered by You are loved 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋