Our relationship was never "official", but he always was playing games with me so I dumped him, and last night he sent me a messegge and he told me that he wants to start all over again and he asked me if i wanted to be his gf again... but, personally i'm not sure about that, i still like him but he made harm to me, besides i'm not that desperate. what should i do?
2006-08-23 04:22:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Chances are, no matter how sweet and sincere he sounds, he probably wont change. He only wants you back now bc you ended it, and once you take him back and start falling for him again, he'll do it all over again. I had a guy do that to me and we went back and forth for over a year. It's the most painful thing, don't do it to yourself. And keep in mind, if he really cared about you, he wouldn't have played all those games with your head in the first place. Get out now when you are still strong enough to bc the deeper you get into it, the harder it is to leave even when you know you should. Trust me.
2006-08-23 05:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like an ***.
But give love a chance.
If he still plays games kick him into touch and find someone better.
Simple really!
2006-08-23 11:24:49 · answer #2 · answered by Darren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on with your life, he just is back because you dumped him. He'll go right back to the same old guy after a few weeks.
2006-08-23 11:27:51 · answer #3 · answered by Go Cats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO always move forward going back is like going back to the third grade when little boys were childish
2006-08-23 11:24:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you still like him, you should say ok, but also say that if you go out again, things have to be different from your last relationship- meaning no games, etc.
2006-08-23 11:25:44 · answer #5 · answered by annna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him one more Chance, Let him know what you expect from him in the relationship, if he screw's it up again.....its over.
2006-08-23 11:30:07 · answer #6 · answered by Randa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said, "your not that desperate" so move on and tell him he should do the same. Peace.
2006-08-23 11:27:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, go out with him again and let him know that you arent playing games with him...this time around, its your game...youre the boss!
2006-08-23 11:29:18 · answer #8 · answered by r_y_s_s_a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont want to go out with him agian tell him no that you are not interested.
2006-08-23 11:25:21 · answer #9 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋