there is a guy in my class who proposed to me but he is really sick and keeps on irritating me all the time.I dont talk to him rudely but now he is really getting on my nerves.how do i teach him a lesson and show that i am not at all interested in him?
2006-08-23 04:20:54 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ignore him. Eventually he will give up.
2006-08-23 04:22:21 · answer #1 · answered by dolphin2253 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take his attention as a compliment, first. Then progress from there. But realize that some people never take NO for an answer. You don't want to "teach him a lesson," rather to get him to hear that you are NOT interested in him.
Just say NO and walk away. The next time he asks, repeat "I already told you NO" and walk away.
Any games could backfire on you.
2006-08-23 04:24:08 · answer #2 · answered by banananose_89117 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well whenever he approaches u start talking with another good guy and try to ignore him .before this, just ask him to not to irritate coz u dont hv any feelings for him and if it all goes on like the way it is going on u will hate him.if the latter doesnt work out then go for the first.i am sure it will help. all the best.
2006-08-23 04:24:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh that is hard but still u should handle that situation!ok no is the right answer to him and tell him first to stop harrasing u or else,and why the answer is that he act really sillnes and he ned to know that there is alot of other girls that they'll really like him more and let him get of ur back and try to speak so calm and be so cool that when u talk with cos he sems to be like to push on u hope that makes him quit :).
2006-08-23 04:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by joe m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have another guy have a talk with him. Nothing physical but someone to say, "hey why don't you leave her alone, she's not interested." That way you don't feel like a bad person and he gets the message.
2006-08-23 04:29:33 · answer #5 · answered by Go Cats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him in straight words, to stop irritating you any more.
If intolerable, complaint to your Class Teacher and next to the Principal. You can also Tell this to your parents and teach him a lesson.
Wait and see.
2006-08-27 03:17:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A restraining order could be used. You might talk to the authorities at the school as to what can be done. They may be able to do something to help.
2006-08-23 04:25:55 · answer #7 · answered by sirelmo60 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him,and at the same time be careful around him.Some young men rape and kill women,and believe it or not alot of times they get away with it,never be alone with this guy=)
2006-08-23 04:24:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the teachers involved and maybe get him moved to another class. Otherwise get a restraining order, if hes weird who knows what might happen.
2006-08-23 04:28:38 · answer #9 · answered by nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date someone else and make sure he sees you. Just don't react to him even if you are irritated, that way he will get bored.
2006-08-26 10:53:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be ohnest go talk to him directly and tell him you arent interested in him and if he continues to irritate ignore ultimatelyu he will get bugged and will stop the nonsense
2006-08-23 20:13:13 · answer #11 · answered by manini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋