We love eachother to death and he says he's 70% for women and 30% for guys. He is sooo cute. And he was the one to tell me I'm hot. But whenever I say something about a celebrity hes like, yeah he's cute. He made out with a guy once too.... Do you think this is ok? He's never had gay sex by the way.
2006-08-23 03:48:51 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so what exactly is the problem? He's into you right?!! If he cheats on you, then it wouldn't matter whether it was with a male or female....he's not cheating.....just looking, so no problem! You look at other people don't you...whether it be guys or girls....its natural...be happy with the relationship you have and stop worrying about him being bi-sexual!
2006-08-23 03:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by dragonfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's really sure of where he is on the orientation line, then there's nothing wrong with it. I personally think bi guys are pretty damn hot, and they fact that he likes guys doesn't mean he doesn't or ever won't also like girls. Maybe being a bi-ish girl gives me more of a perspective on it, to know that I can think girls I see are hot, but still like a guy...
2006-08-23 03:56:38 · answer #2 · answered by emily_brown18 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you're ok with it or you're not. It's a personal preference yourself. I'm a girl and not bisexual, but I say to my partner, 'oh she's hot' etc if I think so. Maybe you could have that mentality, think that it's just like a girl saying something positive (incl. being attracted) to the same sex.
Tough situation and I hope you come to a decision you're happy with.
2006-08-23 03:52:42 · answer #3 · answered by montanasamra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was with someone for about 5 6yrs a kind of long distance relationship and i saw him some place i wasn't suppose to and i found out he was bi i was find with it for the minute but when it got to me i couldn't handle being with someone that had a bf also that was hard but if it doesn't bother you and you feel ok with you and you can accept that he's into guys also and will cheat on you with a guy then yeah it's ok good luck
2006-08-23 03:58:10 · answer #4 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he made out with a guy, he's probably had gay sex but he doesn't want to share that with you. Sweetie, there is no such thing as bisexual. People say that you can be hetero but be attracted to a person of the sam sex their energy. I personally do not believe that. To me, bisexual is a synonim for gay. Sweetie, your boyfriend is gay.
2006-08-23 03:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by Sanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it's ok- you just need to be open-minded & accepting about it! what should it matter if he made out with a guy once? if he told you he made out with a girl once, it wouldnt bother you at all. now if he's going out w/ you AND another guy, then that's cheating. but if you're the only girl or guy he's dating, then don't worry abt it.
2006-08-23 04:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by annna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do we think it is OK???
If you are willing to deal with a man who wants other men, then yeah it's ok. You may be only a cover up for him but if your ok with it then, thats all on you.
Speaking from personal experience... I am not OK with it. I mean, if a man "cheats" on you with a woman you feel bad. But what if he leaves you alone, while he is f*cking some guy??? How will you feel then? I was pissed!!!!
Good Luck to you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-23 03:53:54 · answer #7 · answered by couriousinms 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, are you sure he's actually bisexual? I've heard that bisexuality is very rare in men; most bisexual males are actually homosexual or heterosexual and just refuse to admit it to themselves.
If he really IS bisexual, I don't think it's too much of a problem, unless of course it goes against your religion.
2006-08-23 03:52:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like something that will lead to problems down the road in your relationship.
2006-08-23 03:51:18 · answer #9 · answered by Nitris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are asking for big, confusing trouble. Let him know that once he figures out his sexuality to look you up again to see if you are not too busy.
2006-08-23 03:52:20 · answer #10 · answered by ElOsoBravo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋