I really want him to like me, becuase I like him alot, im just not sure how to get him to be more attracted to me. He says that he likes me, but he told my friend that hes not sure if he wants a relationship or a hook up, and i dont just want a hook up. What can I do to get him more interested?
2006-08-23 03:44:59 · 14 answers · asked by hey there :) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes the nicest guy in the world, and he lives a few towns over so i see him 2/3 times a week...
2006-08-23 03:49:25 · update #1
At 16 you have lots of time to have a relationship. Just have fun, and if it doesn't work out, Boys are like buses, there will be another on in 10 minutes.
2006-08-23 03:48:32 · answer #1 · answered by rudytute 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I like this guy who is almost 4 years older than me. He is really great and stuff like that. I'm 99% sure he likes me cause the way he acts arround me and stuff like that. If you dont' want a hook up then just tell him. Try going on a few dates first and see what happens form there. How to get him more atracted to you well, i really don't know what to tell you on that. Some times you cant make a person more attracted to you. Other times you can. Just do what your doing now. That will do it. Just be yourself arround him. Good luck!
2006-08-23 10:52:31 · answer #2 · answered by itillianchk10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm i see two things wrong here. He's not sure, and you have no idea what he wants. hmmmmmmmmmmm lets see.... if I were you. i would do this. Simply ask him.. for beta"Why are you not ready for a relationship?" and accept the answer he gives you. it could be he just got out of a lengthly term with someone else and got hurt. the only way you will know how to be more attractive towards him is to ask. Speaking and trust are the two key ingredients to have a strong relationship. If you want this guy Speak to him. And hey if it doesn't work out there are plenty of us to go around =)
-Brad
2006-08-23 10:53:52 · answer #3 · answered by hacksta1011010110 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and don't try too hard to make someone be interested in you. Your personality should be enough to see if they want to be around you.
If you have to try that hard to get this guy to be more interested in you will you be able to keep up the momentum once you get him more interested in you.
The guy isn't sure if he just want a hook up meaning no attachments or a relationship and you might can't change that until you get involve with him and he see you as more than a hook up and somebody he might want as a girlfriend.
So don't try to hard and if it will be it will be.
2006-08-23 10:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships don't really go on the "I NEED YOU NOW!" basis. You may like him, but that doesn't mean jack squat to him.
If he's not sure what he wants from you, just stay his friend. Learn about him more through friendship. You'll end up happier because you never know, this guy could be a real jerk once you get to know him.
2006-08-23 10:48:12 · answer #5 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a reason why he doesn't want the relationship? Has he been hurt before?
Perhaps you could try to involve him in mutual interests or invite him to the events and places you frequent. Maybe things will improve if he gets to know other aspects of your personality..
If all else fails, he's just not that into you...
2006-08-23 10:51:39 · answer #6 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WALK AWAY -- and you sound like you may be under 18 so anyone that will be 4 years older will be nothing but trouble. He's saying he doesn't think he wants more than a hook-up -- don't sink yourself that low as it won't change his mind!
2006-08-23 10:48:29 · answer #7 · answered by jennw33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give him some space and pretend for about three weeks that u're no longer interested in him then he'll be sure of what he wants because he'll miss you but before then,try as much as u can to impress him by doing what ever makes him happy,be around him and dote on him consistently.make him feel ur presence in his life before u act.
2006-08-23 11:02:25 · answer #8 · answered by newdawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think hooking up is degrading, not to mention putting your health at risk. Space usually makes guys want you.
2006-08-23 10:47:54 · answer #9 · answered by JenaMarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you cant pressure him into liking you. either wait until hes ready for a relationship or find another guy.
2006-08-23 10:47:23 · answer #10 · answered by Jmkisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋