so I have been with my boyfriend for two years almost and his mom is starting to try and "lecture" him about me. See his dad is a preacher and so she is a typical preachers wife.
Now I have always been respectful and her and I have even had some great conversations. Now yes I have a few small tattoosbut I always dress very nice (not that dress hoeish or anything) and I try to cover all my tats. I think she knows that i do not go to church, although the subject has never been formally approached. See i do not believe in church, I am a firm believer in God and all his Holliness, just not organized religion.
I encourage my bpyfriend to attend church every Sunday, but he has stopped attending. And believe me it is not like we are kicking it during this time.
Also, he has a son with girl from a previous relationship (this is ok with me because I also have a child from previous man). His mother is actually telling him that me being around is causing all of the problems with
2006-08-23 03:43:35 · 12 answers · asked by cookies_n_cream0218 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
him and her.
2006-08-23 03:43:48 · update #1
now true she is jealous and stuff, but they were broke up LONG before I came around. if he wasnt with me he still WOULD NOT be with her. I think that the girl should just grow up.
2006-08-23 03:44:42 · update #2
Now I feel wierd around his mom....I really feel like she is trying to get her son to leave me alone.
We are both 22, about to be 23.
What the hell should I do? Should I pretend like everything is ok?
2006-08-23 03:45:53 · update #3
no he protects me and is not listening to her. But men and their mommas are like glue usually.
And you know what... iam tired of all these LAZY @SS people on yahoo answers...for real.
2006-08-23 03:49:50 · update #4
hey girl.... i am in the same situation almost. his parents does not like me. its not your tattooes or not attending church, it is just that they would hate anyone who will in their mind 'take their son away'. Now that he is not with his former girl, now she is ok for him. They are no longer afraid that she is taking their son from them.
Now that you came in the picture, whatever you do will be wrong. Just sit down with your boyfriend and discuss this situation with him. If he thinks that his parents are fine, then you should pack and move on. As someone else said you do not need a mummy's boy. It can be hard for you if you have strong feelings for this man, but it is better now than later on.
If he stand up for you and told his parents not to interfere with his and your life, then its a different story (my bf did). Stick with the guy and make sure to make him feel loved if anything happens to break the relationship with his parents, Be there to support him emotionally, because it hurts to break with parents, but he has to do it if he loves you. Do not give him ultimatums, just discuss how you feel and what you both think about the whole situation.
I hope that your situation will improve. It will never be fine with the in-laws, but make sure you spend less and less time with them. They do not need to know what you do, how you dress and stuff!!!
2006-08-23 03:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by trushka 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont know why some moms are like that but organized religion can bring trouble especially if they are not preaching the truth which most organized religions preach doctrines that they wont let change because of they want to please the orginazation instead of the Lord because they are worried about the money and dont have the real truth. Now the ex sounds like she needs to grow up and the mom needs to let her son find himself she cant make him love someone else I hope that things work out for you. She needs to look to make sure her son is happy and if he is leave the two of you alone
2006-08-23 03:49:57 · answer #2 · answered by stormyblythe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be both. If for illustration you're making plans to rob a liquor retailer...that smells putrid. If you're making plans to come back over to my position with a few whipped cream and hand cuffs...that smells best.
2016-08-21 00:41:21 · answer #3 · answered by adamek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
must be the two. If case in point you're making plans to rob a liquor shop...that smells putrid. while you're making plans to come again over to my place with some whipped cream and hand cuffs...that smells friendly.
2016-10-02 10:54:27 · answer #4 · answered by puga 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might be both. If for example you might be planning to rob a liquor store...That smells putrid. In case you are planning to return over to my situation with some whipped cream and hand cuffs...That smells pleasant.
2016-08-09 12:23:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Momma's boy alert.....or either that he's using her to break up with you. You should sit him down and have a serious talk. Tell him how you feel and if he can't give you any straight answers its time to cut the strings and move on. There are plenty of other men out there who would be more worth your time....
2006-08-23 03:49:36 · answer #6 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ALL MEN ARE MOMMAS BOYS. TO A MOTHERS EYES NO WOMEN WILL BE GOOD ENOUGH FOR HIM. SO TELL HIM TO STOP BREAST FEEDING FROM HIS MOTHER. HAVE HIM LET HIS MOTHER KNOW IT IS YOU AND HIM NOT HER AND YOU. LAY OFF FROM THE MOTHER BUT STILL GIVE THE RESPECT YOU THINK SHE DESERVE.
2006-08-23 03:57:49 · answer #7 · answered by madkorey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship should between you and your boyfriend. If he listens to his mom, get rid of him... you don't need no momma's boy who can't think on his own.
2006-08-23 03:46:46 · answer #8 · answered by Private Account 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to mind her own business, how old is this guy two? he's old enough to make his own choices without mama's help
2006-08-23 03:49:50 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont need to like your b/f parents to be with him. make sure that she knows that you are not forcing him to not go to church. show her that you love him and that you wont hurt him.
2006-08-23 03:50:49 · answer #10 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋