a few years ago i had a scare & had to have a tumor (non-cancerous) removed from my breast - the scar is barely visible, but the breast with surgery is now slightly smaller. recently single, i still look good, but am self-conscious.
2006-08-23 03:17:56 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe your a beautiful person, be confident and proud of who you are. Whoever you decide to share your body with will not be preforming test and taking measurement to make sure all your features are perfect. If they do, move on to someone who cares for you as a person and gives you the love you deserve.
2006-08-23 03:23:46 · answer #1 · answered by loser 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm in love with a girl that had her large intestine taken out when she was 3 days old and had many surguries to fix that through out her life. She is in her 20s and needless to say there is a big L shaped scar on her belly that goes from right under the breast all the way down and across her whole stomach and abs area. I will tell you this she is the sexiest most desireable thing i've ever seen. If your husbands says that it doesn't bother him at all believe him it doesn't. If he Loves you it TRULY does not matter he will find you attractive and sexy.
2016-03-17 01:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's very common now a days,it's not a problem that a man should turn away from.just be yourself the one will come and keep your head up no matter what. We had a sermon in church about if you think your at the point you can't do something just go to sleep and let God take care of it.So pray and leave it to God. I'll pray for you too. God bless you!
2006-08-23 03:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by Gary B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even us men are conscious of ourselves. Don't worry about it at all hun. A real mature man wont mind. Mater a fact he will be delighted to know that your ok and that you took precautions.
Focus on being healthy and at the same time try and find yourself a man!
Good luck. Best of wishes.
2006-08-23 03:21:42 · answer #4 · answered by Kyle W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi im 52 so i guess i come under the category of mature. I do not and have not in the past had any problems being with a woamn who had undergone surgery. A former gf of mine had to have a breast removed yet I loved her so dearly that it made not an ounce of difference to our relationship. of course she was self concious but love soon got rid of that. I hope you will find the strength to cope with what you have. if someone tells you they dont notice it they are probably right its just that you have to believe them. lots of luck and love
2006-08-23 03:22:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have a problem with it. If it happened to my wife, I wouldn't love her less...I'd probably love her more, because I got a second chance to be with her. Life is short. Besides, when that happens, you have to have the surgery. You really don't have a choice.
2006-08-23 03:22:03 · answer #6 · answered by jim 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
with all the technology available today without surgery...the man you find to be your partner will never know about your surgery or the size difference til either you tell him or he discovers it during your sexual time with him. If it happens at the latter time, I would hope that you would know him well enough to have shared anyway and that it would not make a big difference if at all to him! Its the way you present it to him that will make the difference...does that make sense?
2006-08-23 03:21:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So what? girl, you're fine just the way you are. And I'm sure all of you works perfectly (even the breast that had the operation). So you'll be fine. Any guys who doesn't think so is missing out, so dump him and find another
2006-08-23 03:24:13 · answer #8 · answered by LoneWolf 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a friend of mine his girlfriend got breast cancer and had to have a mastectomy...and he loved her just as much... you shouldnt worry too much ...most women have a normal size difference between the breasts... and guys dont study that long ...believe me theyre not looking for differences just enjoying the view lol... stay confident in yourself... after all their main function in real is for feeding babies ...and im sure they wont be checking out the differences...lol if the overall view looks good to the guys eyes and the personality too who cares about couple of centimetres.......im sure he wont even notice ...he only knows your body from when he meets you so. wouldnt know there was anything different anyway ... look in the mirror and like what you see...after all it is you..lumps bumps grooves wrinkles whatever ...personality is the one thing that counts the most
2006-08-23 03:29:44 · answer #9 · answered by she wolf. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be self-conscious. Whoever you find that finds you attractive won't even notice your smaller breast unless you walk around naked showing people. :P If he's worth it, he'll fall for your personality first anyway and everything else will be secondary.
2006-08-23 03:20:57 · answer #10 · answered by Private Account 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋