I used to be a bad guy and was successful with girls, now I'm a good guy and I am not successful. Should I become bad again?
2006-08-23 03:15:27 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm tired of pretending to be good and pure!
2006-08-23 03:20:43 · update #1
And what actually you think is a bad boy?
2006-08-23 03:28:35 · update #2
I used to "escape" from school in the 1st and 2nd grade. Was this bad?
2006-08-23 03:30:54 · update #3
No, please don't, I am a good girl looking for a good guy....... I always go for the bad boy as you put it. I want the guy with the strength and the fun personality and the spark of life........ but I want him to be faithful not a player and I want him to be REAL, not fake and all about just the moment. I think its great that you went from a bad boy to a good boy, that means your getting your life together and your ready for the love of a real woman......... that is exciting about you. The girls you had all over you were the ones with no self respect......... I know i was one of them not that long ago......... but the woman you want now is a good woman that has self respect and that is one you will need to romance. That my friend is a woman worth the low unsuccessful time you are going through with women/girls....... and trust me the next woman you meet and date, will be worth it. Congrats on getting your life together and putting away the bad boy to be a better man. :) Wish I knew you.......... but its cool just to answer your question instead......... BLessed be.
2006-08-23 03:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Opposites DO attract. But its mostly fluff.................
In the beginning the bad boy may be cool, sexy, but if ur a loser, then it wont matter. Listen when I was a girl I only dated bad boys, "thugs", as I matured I APPRECIATE a gentlemen, a business man, really any man who is a man and is respectful, honest, and takes up for himself, and isnt always the thug, just because a guys looks all bad, doesnt mean he is.
Some women need to mature to get over this ruffneck image some guys have. And if a girl doesnt wanna date u cause ur a responsible adult, why would u even want to be with her anyway!!! Keep on being URSELF!!!
2006-08-23 03:22:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be who your are supposed to be, sure maybe girls like bad boys, but they also hate pretenders, just be yourself who you really are and trust me in time you will find the right girl
2006-08-23 03:18:41 · answer #3 · answered by gerry d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a girl and i love bad guys for some reason but dont change yourself of compromise for the sake of getting a girlfriend or someone to sleep with...
2006-08-23 03:17:59 · answer #4 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always fall for the bad guy. It is like I almost look around, find the biggest A@@@@@@ there is and say "Ya, he's mine". I happen to marry one and he doesn't let me walk on him, and loves me.
2006-08-23 03:18:14 · answer #5 · answered by JULIE J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because some girls do like good guys
2006-08-23 03:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by cscollege07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls like them, but some others don't, maybe you haven't found the correct one, or maybe you're looking for the wrong girl
2006-08-23 03:18:40 · answer #7 · answered by Beba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not actually like that, but it usually turns out like that. (i can relate!) but NEVER change back to the usual "bad" u, c0z it wont make any difference..
2006-08-23 03:27:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls lov bad boy's to a certain extent...
2006-08-23 03:22:36 · answer #9 · answered by jaxxie1982 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes - unfortunatley that is the case with me & it only brings heartache.
2006-08-23 03:19:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋