well me and this guy have been dating for and month and over now and before we starting dating it even seemed like we were cuz he hugged me and kissed and all that stuff.But now that we are dating he doesnt seem to talk to me.when i see him he just ignores me and doesnt say a word to me but the hell call me and just keep talking and talking . wen i see him he acts like we dont go out but then he stares at me when i talk to other guys.well now i want to break up with him and i dont know how cuz i dont want to hurt him but i really want to get out this relationship...how shuld i break up with him?
2006-08-23 03:08:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You simply say, "this isn't working for me". It's short and to the point, but not cruel.
2006-08-23 03:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you care about hurting him he obviously doesn't care about hurting you. It seems like this guy is taking you for a ride because he only wants you when its convenient for him so I don't think whatever you guys have is a relationship. Just tell him that you feel like your in this relationship alone, and that his behaviour is affecting the way you feel about him and because of that there is no future for you two, your right you should dump him you've made the right decision now just tell him be honest, because why should you be treated like that. Find someone that really likes you and has time for you and won't ignore you.Guys like him you'd be better off without. Good Luck
2006-08-23 10:45:42 · answer #2 · answered by Emiliana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, we are in the same boat. But luckily, I did not let it go too far. I just called the AZZ up and say, "I am moving on with my life and so should you, please do not call me anymore and I want nothing to do with you. Looser!!!!!! " I just did that this morning. You can do it too. Good luck.
2006-08-23 10:15:54 · answer #3 · answered by preferablyyoung 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you go up to him tell him that its not working we need some time apart .but to me I think he has some other girl hurry up before he hurt you
2006-08-23 10:19:05 · answer #4 · answered by man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you dont want to date him anymore, but if he can handle it you would still do the friendship thing. Then the ball is in his court.
2006-08-23 10:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him and let him know that this is not what you had in mind in a relationship.
2006-08-23 10:13:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that its not working. He obviously doesn't care that much about you so you won't hurt him. Don't discuss why, just tell him that you want to leave him.
2006-08-23 10:11:14 · answer #7 · answered by I_am_me___ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just continue talking to other guys...or just treat him how he treated you...let him have a taste of his own medicine.
2006-08-23 10:12:24 · answer #8 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up over the phone and then hung up!
2006-08-23 10:13:40 · answer #9 · answered by Kandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say(name)this really isnt working out for me
2006-08-23 10:16:34 · answer #10 · answered by eternallygrateful 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋