I have an ex boyfriend who I have been broken up with for over a year but we are still friends. We have recently been e-mailing and of course sex has come up. We have decided to get together for some sex. Heres my question for the mature men out there(Im 35) what percentage of you sleep with ex girlfriends because you still really care about them and what percentage feel, its just sex? I need honesty here.
2006-08-23 03:06:30 · 24 answers · asked by arreis 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on how things ended. Who dumped whom? Was it a mutual break up?
1. If you dumped him then he could still have feelings for you.
2. If he kicked you to the curb then your just a quick 'n' easy piece of A-$-$!
3. If it was a mutual parting.... go figure! There's no real way to know.
The real question is why does it matter? You are no longer together so feelings are irrelevant. You both have an itch that needs to be scratched. Kind of a you scratch my back and I'll scratch yours type thing.
2006-08-23 03:20:54 · answer #1 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well and Ex is just what they are...an EX. Why would you want to even go back that rought. People now-a-days say sex is just sex not really knowing that every person that you have sex with you actually leave something with them after its over. Thats how sex buddies for some reason can actually turn into REAL feelings. And since you guys have already had a relationship in the past your just asking for trouble by just having sex. More then likely somone still have some serious feelings there and you guys are leaving yourself wide open to start something. So to be honest..sex is not just sex when you have had a past relationship.
Leave ex's in your past unless you truly want to get back with them. Whats the point of back tracking when you should always move forward.
2006-08-23 10:21:07 · answer #2 · answered by Latavish G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a ex girl friend that I see about twice a month. I am also about to be married in 4 months. I still care about the the ex but I love my girl friend. The ex is fun to be with and and we have a great time when we are together but we just can't spend that much time with each other with out getting on each others last nerve. But I do care about her. I hope this helps
2006-08-23 10:15:45 · answer #3 · answered by dg_154u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 35 and still don't know that men don't need to care for a woman to have sex? I done that ( sex with ex , but always made it perfectly clear that didn't mean we were getting back together.
2006-08-23 10:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by elgil 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just sex, you guys are just both lonely and needed some skin, most guys don't care how they get laid even if it is from our ex. But you need to ask yourself why did you guys brake up in the first place because the way your speaking is that you both care for each other. But maybe not i could be wrong, but you can't be giving up yourself that easy to him
2006-08-23 10:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by gerry d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 37 an married now. I still talk to my ex and my wife knows about it. But I would not go back and sleep with her because I am not a cheater and it would be very disrespectful to my wife. But if I was single, I would think about it.
2006-08-23 10:15:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never had sex with an ex before, but if I did, it would probably be just for the recreational sex. You never know, your rendezvous could lead to a rekindled relationship.
2006-08-23 10:10:11 · answer #7 · answered by Brad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 31, and men never use sex to try to get a woman back or to show that we care about you. I'm sorry, but we just don't operate that way.
2006-08-23 10:18:40 · answer #8 · answered by wileycoyote_the_supergenius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that for the man, its just sex. If there were feelings, you wouldn't have been apart for over a year (unless someone had moved away). Don't do it unless u want to get hurt
2006-08-23 10:10:30 · answer #9 · answered by LoneWolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm also 35 and have never slept with an EX, If its over its over.
Move on.
2006-08-23 10:12:26 · answer #10 · answered by joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋