i just found out last night that this guy i been seeing was a virgin before me...it took me by a huge surprise because hes very attractive and nice and has never had a serious relationship...so now im asking myself if there is something wrong with him or if hes lying...hes 20..and also i dont know why im turned off by that..i mean i didnt wanna be his first!??
2006-08-23 02:56:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just have to give him the benefit of the doubt, maybe he was seriously saving himself for the right person. If you don't want to be his first, you need to be honest with him and tell him. You don't want to ruin the expectations of his first experience.
2006-08-23 02:59:30 · answer #1 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because u thought he could knock ur socks off, or u WANT ur socks knocked off, and he is inexperienced and cant do it. U want a manly man, etc, etc, I feel the same way, This revelation takes away from his masculine qualities, admit it. We women want a stallion. But really this doesnt make him less of a man, it makes him a very unique individual, a strong willed person. Respect that. Just think about it, u could be his first, who'll he'll remember FOREVER, and u can mold him into what u desire. Go forth and date the MAN!!!
2006-08-23 03:02:29 · answer #2 · answered by funkygurll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and what's ur pb with that????
i think that u should be happy !!
there's a few guys left like him in all around!!
try not to lose him !
2006-08-23 03:02:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're shallow. Who really cares about that? If you love someone you should love everything about them.
2006-08-23 03:01:05 · answer #4 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably because you want him to have more experience. That's my guess why.
2006-08-23 03:14:45 · answer #5 · answered by Glennon Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not one anymore s why does that even matter?
2006-08-23 03:10:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
heheh maybe your wondering "does he know what he's doing" maybe you wont a man who knows what he's doing.....
2006-08-23 02:59:43 · answer #7 · answered by Kimberly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋