There is this girl I have known for about 3 years now. We met at work. Well Ive been wanting her since day one. The whole time we have known each other, she has had trouble finding a good guy. She wants a good guy, but won't give me a chance. We have kissed on several occasions, but usually alcohol is involved. She knows Im in love with her, but she always comes to me to talk about the problems she has with guys. I have told her that if she was with me, that she wouldn't have to worry about these problems. How do I make her want me before its too late? I mean, I like her a lot, but I feel like she is keeping me on the back burner. Like we might hook up later, but only if she doesn't find something better. What should I do?
2006-08-23 01:48:47 · 15 answers · asked by kennethrieser 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude, she's dropping hints like a diarrhetic pigeon. hit it.
2006-08-23 01:50:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant do anything to make her want you. She is going to have to make that decision on her own. It sounds like she is enjoying a friendship with you. She really wanted to kiss you to give you a try, but set the situation up so that when yall talked about it, yall could blame it on alcohol. Alcohol doesnt MAKE people kiss each other. She has opened up to you yet about having a relationship with you, so you cant force it. Instead of waiting for her to change her mind, why dont you just express your feelings to her? Then she can express her feelings to you and then you can decide how you are going to move with your relationship.
2006-08-23 01:53:42 · answer #2 · answered by chipmunk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her out and show her how you would treat her its time to put your cards out on the table stop making yourself available fo her as a shoulder to cry on be available for some bedroom action instead tell her your true feelings if you love her tell also tell her you cant wait for her to wake up and see that what she is looking for is right there in front of her staring her in the face, all she has to do is accept it. make sure she knows thats theres no turning back you arent gonna wait anymore if she dont bite after giving her a week to think about it. move on she might come around when you do move on but dont accept her she will on stay around long enough to break up your new relationship then she's off getting dogged again by some loser. you seem okay to me hell if she dont take you give me a call.
2006-08-23 01:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant make someone want you. The best way to go about this is to befriend her. Act as if you want to be friends with her. When she sees that you take an interest in her and are geniune about your feelings. She will come to like and then you can make your move by asking her out on a date. Best of luck amigo
2006-08-23 01:52:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she doesn't really know what she wants...
but have you tried scratching her behind her ears while saying...Nice Doggy, Nice Doggy...
seriously give it up...she isn't good enough for you... she is just using you and will go with the first guy that comes along who she thinks may be better than you..and kiddo...since you care so much about her...she'll never find anyone as suited for her as you are...
That's my story... and I'm sticking to it....
Peace & Love,
Fast Freddy
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2016-11-05 10:52:30 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she likes you as a friend and nothing more. if you've known her for 3 years and she still hasnt had any interest in you it's prob. because she jsut don't want to hurt your felings and really considers you one of her friends. I don't mean to be mean but you gotta try to get over her, as hard as that just might be. you know what i mean? prob not.. but good luck.
2006-08-23 01:55:13 · answer #7 · answered by The Ego 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you go after her she knows that you are there at all times back off a little and you will she how she will come around i am a girl so trust me the more you go after her the more she likes it and can play with you but you play hard to get watch how she comes around good luck
2006-08-23 02:00:58 · answer #8 · answered by robyn g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She knows that you love her, and still, she does nothing. The situation is hard, and sadly, you have low chances to change her mind. She might be with you in the future but don't have too much faith in that relationship.
2006-08-23 01:56:07 · answer #9 · answered by Wes10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm lets see here its ben 3 years and lets see your still sitting around biting your fing nails on this bimbo, right forget her move onn. your right she wont give you a chance she has no interest in you thre years is too long too waste time in this bimbo. so you were drunk on your- and you think that counts for anything here it means nothing too her, and she keeps rambling on about other men in her life hmm does she have, checkered past is she a tramp?? and you sit and listenn too her about her romaticc lifestyle about all of the so caledd men in her life isent she boring the hell out of you there after siiting around listening too her past male friends here?? yeah apparently shes using you and running around with other men here and you just sit around and listen too her ramble on about other men what in the hel is wrong with you dump her and move onn shes a cheap tramp!! want you isent it odvious after three years you sound like a real loseer here wake up smell the coffee here!! yeah shes got you on the back burner, al right, hok up laterr like when in another, io years if you want too sit around until, thenm hey , forget about this bimbo, go of and find a cute stud too do the big bang with forget about the bimbo, get over her lost cause!!
2006-08-23 01:58:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget her now!
you are going to get hurt
maybe by forgeting her she may come around and know what she missed. but do not hope. it will make you sick.
fall out of love with her immediately!
find someone else to think about
The pain you feel now WILL go away,I promise, It does
Good luck
2006-08-23 01:54:52 · answer #11 · answered by Mr. love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋