This summer we were about to get engaged, i have been always possesive but he never showed to me that he was upset because of this fact. At a sudden, after 3 years of a very serious relationship, when he was so convinsed of the fact that i was the one and he introdused me to his family,he told me that he was feeling bad because of my possesivity and because we have been with each-other all the day long for these years and he wanted to feel free and not like a married man. But when i realized that i was wrong it was too late, he didn`t love me anymore. He was like a teenage who wanted new experiences. The point is i feel so bad and guilty, he was everything, my friend, my family and i lost him. I'm feeling really bad because he was so nice to me and i know that no body is going to be like him.
2006-08-23 01:32:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all, everyone knows how hard it is to break up with the one you love. go right ahead to cry your heart out ...for a while.sooner or later you'll be over it.
i think your boy friend was not mature enough for the marriage. it's a good thing he chickened out of it. good for you, see it as another chance for someone even better waiting out there.
2006-08-23 02:25:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're possessiveness drove him away, he felt hemmed in by your needs and wanted to experience the freedom that comes with making his own decisions and not having to be controlled by you.
There is a plus side in this you now know you are possessive and can work on not making this mistake again. It wont be easy but you have already done the hardest part, you have realised you have a problem, all you need to do now is work with a group or counsellor to find ways to control your possessiveness so you and any future partner can both be happy with each other.
Good Luck it can be done and you are strong enough to be able to do it
2006-08-23 08:40:48 · answer #2 · answered by madamspud169 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The World is full of Good people. Keep opening your eyes for better....Always better. Past is past. U can't 'Undo'. Just involve yourself with your best hobby or activity U love most. The Time will heal and cure everything. Always try to find better and better in every walks of life.
When You Are Confident to Yourself...The world is with You.
All the best.
2006-08-23 08:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by IdeaAdvisor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he wanted knew experiences ...maybe it is best you set him free...but that does not mean he will not wake up one day and know he made a mistake too...but i would go on about my life....but if you really love him just tell him that you feel lost without him...but really think about this before you do it...it may be better to move on and keep yourself busy and find someone that is ready to settle down and you have lots of fun with...it is hard to say what you should do...but do not worry about noone liking him just think about your own happiness now...
2006-08-23 08:38:41 · answer #4 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything happens for a reason...
what's done is done..and you can't turn back time..at least you learned your lesson..
all you've got to do is get a new life..
2006-08-23 08:38:48 · answer #5 · answered by fuChsianG shiNigaMi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him girl and show him you can change
2006-08-23 08:37:18 · answer #6 · answered by sassybiva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let try its might work out.................mail me at jamesy2k10@yahoo.com
cheers
2006-08-23 08:41:38 · answer #7 · answered by j boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋