plz plz plz.. dont get angry i just want an asnwer..
i was a pesophile since birth.. i dont wanna harm a kid but what if someday i cant? i mean i have no bad intensions.. can i cure it someway? can i stop this urge or do anything? i need help. i've consulted some doctors over internet but they say its just the way it is.. it cannot be changed.. any1 of u have an idea what to do? plzzzzzzzzzz help me..
2006-08-23 01:19:50 · 36 answers · asked by pakbooter151 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
ya maybe there's no way left.. i should commit suicide.. if that makes this world cleaner..
2006-08-23 01:31:01 · update #1
Hmm im sorry...but grab a shotgun and hit the shower, so you wont make a mess.
2006-08-23 01:22:08 · answer #1 · answered by helena2581 2 · 5⤊ 7⤋
Well first of all, let me say that, I do not believe that anyone is born with this, just like I do not believe that homosexuals were born that way! It is a CHOICE, as is everything in life and if you choose to do something like that, then God help you for the harm that will befall you!
Let me ask you a question? If you had children and someone did something like that to your child how would you feel? Or even if you had a husband/wife, and someone raped them, how would you feel?
What could a person possibly be born with that could make them want to sexually molest a child? How could you possibly get excitement from that?
You need to pray that God does not strike you where you stand and then you need to find you a girlfriend/boyfriend whatever and do what you need to do with them! Why can you not find someone of legal age to do what you have to do?
I have 3 daughters and 2 sons and I have to say that are the light of my life, but if I ever found out that some sick F@@ker laid a hand on my child, much less molested them, they would never be able to hide fast enough, I would hunt them down and kill them like the animal they are! And I would not care if I went to jail, the electric chair, whatever, it would be worth it to rid the world of one more ASSHOLE!
If you have already done this, I hope they give you the electric chair, an eye for an eye, if you ruin someone Else's life then you should suffer the same fate!
You said that everyone on here is cursing at you, What did you expect when you post a question like that?
If you ask me, they have been very polite and you are lucky, you didn't get my husband answering this question, it would have been more vulgar!
I hope that you get help, but the day that you lay your hands on a child, I pray that you will rot in HELL for ETERNITY!
2006-08-24 00:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by iLoveDawnDawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say what kind of feeling you have for women in general. If your only attracted to little girls than you do need help. You need to find a doctor that specializes in your disorder. Probably calling the state corrections could give you a lead on a professional that may be able to help. Knowing and admitting you have a problem is by far the best step you could have ever taken. You may have any number of psychological or physiological problems going on in your brain. The number one thing you need to do is "NOT" give in to the temptation. I was shocked when I did a search on google for the word pedophile and there was NOTHING for helping people just a bunch of ANTI pedophile sites. Maybe your local county mental health department might be able to help. Your obviously between a rock and a hard place. Nobody wants to be rubber stamped a pedophile in today's society even though you have been able to control yourself.
Take a look at the sites below for possible help.
2006-08-23 05:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by Plantoneonme 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i stronly recommend two things. i'm not going to sugarcoat it, to me pedophilia is a very vile thing however it's an illness so i can't hate you for it, only the action. whatever that's worth. i do want to let you know though that i admire the fact that you're seeking out help, i think that's a huge step and that's great but i do strongly recommend that you seek professional help from a psychiatrist and also go to a non-denominational church and ask for prayer.
ps.. i just got this from another yahoo member:
Suicide Hotline Phone Number. Not a question. A FYI?
Not a Question, but here is some info FYI there is an new number that transfers people to local hotlines. The old one is going out of service. It may start back up, but this one is being used int the meantime.
the alternative number for those in crisis is 1-800-273-TALK.
I got this information off http://www.nami.org
If you are having problems go to your psychiatric ER, regualar ER or call this number. Not all ERs are interested in admitting people they just talk and tirage people. Admision depends on the danger a patient is in.
If you a having depression doctors are there to help you and effective treatments are available. This is not your fault. It is not about inner strenght. It is about brain chemistry and it is not something people control any more than anyone can control any other disease. Please do not be hard on yourself.
the alternative number for those in crisis is 1-800-273-TALK.
Again this is the number
2006-08-23 02:44:05 · answer #4 · answered by ana g 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No one is a pedophile from birth. If you are a pedophile then it would make me believe that someone molested you as a child and that has changed your idea of what is okay and what isnt. IT IS NOT OKAY TO HAVE SEX WITH CHILDREN!!!!!! There are clinics and such for the type of mental mixup you are experiencing. The first thing they will have you do is admit that experience which has altered your way of thinking. By understanding that which impairs us we CAN overcome them. You have an awfully long road ahead of you. But you have taken the first step in asking for help.This unfortunately isnt the best place to get mental health help. I commend you for seeing your illness and wanting to combat it before you infect another child who also will become an unhealthy individual who is at risk of exposing yet another child ect ect and the dominoes dont stop falling until we STOP them. Find a GOOD Counselor or psychiatrist who is trained in this field and keep with it.. You know right from wrong..And if you cant control yourself then you eventually will have it taken from you and others will control you..Im glad you see before you did something you WILL regret..Stay strong and get well soon
Blessed Be~
2006-08-23 01:36:08 · answer #5 · answered by Cheppyyyyy 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
at first i didn't feel that this was worth my time. so many people on here make up stuff just for the hell of it. so it makes it hard for those of us who want to help. i wont lie my first re-action was to say that maybe suicide was the best answer but i am wrong for feeling that. some things we cannot change but we can try our best to make them better. cutting off your penis is not the answer, you can still hurt a child emotionally and physically. i beg of you as a mother and as a woman whom was molested as a child. do your best to help yourself and those around you by getting some real help. i know you may be embarrassed or ashamed but you need to see a doctor in your area who specializes in this and you should register yourself as a sex offender, predator or potential predator. however you need to do this you need to do it for those children. admitting you have a problem is the 1st step getting help is 2nd. it takes time to fix things. take this one day at a time. try and find a place where you can talk with other people who can help you to control this. you cannot do this alone. getting support is your best option now. these people can help you with the rest. i don't know if this helps. i do hope that you find a way to help yourself.
2006-08-24 02:25:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the other respondent that it is vital that you get treatment. i have obsessive compulsive disorder which in some cases causes the sufferer to have the vilest and most repulsive recurring thoughts of things you'd never do. I have actually clawed my head with my nails to stop the agony of it. I got professional help through a psychiatrist and have been on medication for 14 yrs. Not to compare apples to oranges, by the way, because we have two different illnesses. But there must be help for you and I will pray for you that you find the right source for it.
2006-08-23 01:30:51 · answer #7 · answered by taff's mom 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I was watching a show last night, where they were talking about Karr, the person who killed Jonbenet Ramsey. The professional people stated that "there is NO such thing as someone being born a pedophile, they are CONDITIONED to be this way thru circumstance in their life and visual stimulation"
Therefore, this is a CHOICE you are making to be this way and YES you can unlearn this behavior. It is unacceptable behavior that damages the child for life and you cannot do this.
Seek medical and mental help now and God help you and your victims if you continue this cycle.
2006-08-23 01:49:54 · answer #8 · answered by flyingdove 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Please don't suicide yourself, your life is important. Please take an extra step and seek professional help. Yes, its true, pedophiles cannot be cured, but alcoholics or drug users cant either, and some of them are able to stay sober for 20 years+. The trick is working a per day basis with the help and understanding of your beloved ones. You can do it! The only way issues cant be fixed is if you are dead, and you are alive.
2006-08-23 02:03:08 · answer #9 · answered by Apollo 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
hmmmmm I am sure if you know you have a problem and you are willing to talk about it and to seek help that you will find the help you need. The first step is admitted it the second is seeking help. Keep talking to doctor's or a Physiatrist .
2006-08-23 01:46:46 · answer #10 · answered by c0mplicated_s0ul 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you sick ***,you arent born anything,its what you allow yourself to become,the world is filled with decisions,banging a kid is one of them.i guess im a born murder cause i get pisses and want to take people out.but i dont act on them cause i know its WRONG!!!your guilt alone should stop you from acting on a rape ofan innocent child!No matter how you want to reason with your own selfish lust,these children you are fantasizing over are innocent and pure,and want no part of your disgusting plans.you want to f@#k a child but those children grow to be adults ,and the trauma and pain you put this person through will stay will stay with them for LIFE!!dont be selfish because what you do to children for an instant wiil stay with them for a life timeyou WIll get caught,someone WILL tell,then you can go to prison an get raped by billy ray,,or more than likely they will just kill you,,,it is unacceptable behavior and you know it....put these thoughts out of your mind for all of our benifits,,people like you dont realize how many people are affected by child molestation,,,the childs parents,thewhole family,,,the childs spouse when they marry and even their own children its a vicious cycle that can be prevented.only advice i have for you is put it out of your head go for grown women,,,or men (whatever your into)but dont be a destroyer of lives.....
2006-08-23 01:51:17 · answer #11 · answered by genasinfo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋