2006-08-23 01:17:18 · 16 answers · asked by john 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i heard that finding a new girl right away helps
2006-08-23 01:19:28 · update #1
The best thing NOT to do is continue listening to that favorite song over and over and over... Find some friends to hang with, don't DWELL on the ex-girlfriend...do something that will take your mind off of her...unless there is a chance that you will get back together, the best thing you can do is move on with your life...eventually someone new and perhaps better will come along...but not while you're drowning yourself if memories of "what could have been".
2006-08-23 01:19:59 · answer #1 · answered by Pamm D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time...don't expect to break up one day and the next day you wake up and feel great/happy...it's normal to be sad about a breakup...it means you cared for that person and are not happy that they are no longer in your life (at least not in the way that they were).
Get out and spend time with friends...take up a hobby...do things to distract yourself while your heart heals....and it will, if you let it...remember the relationship ended for a reason and whether it was your idea or hers, apparently you two were not a good match so know that down the road somewhere, you'll meet someone who is a good match and there will be joy and love again...
One day at a time...allow yourself to grieve a bit, but don't bury yourself in it...sometimes what we want isn't what is best for us...move forward and know the sun will shine again...
2006-08-23 08:21:33 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time
2006-08-23 08:18:27 · answer #3 · answered by Elim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man...here's a tip..finding another one right away wouldn't make you get over with that ex easily..
it takes a lot of time and patience..read the book entitled "by the river piedra, i sat down and wept"..its nice and it'll teach you a lot of stuff about love..and mending one's broken heart too...
2006-08-23 08:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by fuChsianG shiNigaMi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your in love with her this may take some time if not this will pass as soon as the next fine girl comes along.
2006-08-23 08:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on
2006-08-23 08:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by EL Big Ed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get over just still live in your dreams that's makes more sense ( scream paro paro and make your self devdas)
2006-08-23 08:19:24 · answer #7 · answered by sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually after lots of drinks & smokes but its only time will fix it/ the drinks & smokes make it worse
2006-08-23 08:23:42 · answer #8 · answered by dragon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to do other stuff....stuff that you did not do with your girlfriend.....start dating again, making some new friends, go out, have fun..maybe...get a job......occupy your time....
2006-08-23 08:21:47 · answer #9 · answered by Issa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move to a differnt county
that what ill do
2006-08-23 08:24:55 · answer #10 · answered by -----[Lieu]Nic[TGOTR]----- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋