I met this woman online last year. She's alot older then me. We hit it off and I went to visit. We started a relationship. However, the relationship was all one sided. I would do for her like buy her things, take her out to dinner and even give her money when we won money at the casino. She never returned the favor. I went to visit her and stayed a few times and often times we would argue about petty stuff. Well, it's been on again off again and it's off again. She won't talk to me at all. Told me not to email, don't call and when I see her she ignores me. A friend of mine went into the chat community I met her in and asked if they had seen me but referred to me as their baby. She wasn't asking my ex just the room in general. My ex said Why is everyone looking for their baby? Why not go call her. My friend said she was acting jealous which means she probably still cares. So, how do I get her back if she doesn't even talk to me? What do I do? I love her very much.
2006-08-23 00:54:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Takes two to tango dude-give it up and chase some of the other fishies in that big ocean.
2006-08-23 00:59:20 · answer #1 · answered by super stud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how this feels and i am going through a similar situation, i gave my heart out to this girl for the last year and a half i gave her everything a girl could want, then she tells me she loves another man. My advice to you is (if you have not done it) let a little time pass, let things cool down, then try approaching her and having a serious conversation, tell her exactly how you feel, how you enjoyed the times together, tell her that you found it was ones sided and see if you get her talking and explaining exactly where it all went wrong... as the quote says: if you love her, and you let her go and she comes back, she was always yours, if she does not, she was never yours
2006-08-23 08:06:15 · answer #2 · answered by srsuper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, this is a tough one.
first of all, you made it sound as though she was using you, and then, at the very end..... you want her back.
apart from winning the lotto and saying to her she can have half a million $$$ if she pretends to be in love with you for the rest of her life.... i dont think there is too much you can do.
It sounds as tho she doesnt want anything to do with you at all. I know this isnt what you want to hear, but wouldn't you prefer to be with someone who is totally into you and loves you the same way you love them? You need to start telling yourself that you deserve better and you want to be happy in life and now is the time to move on.
Wheneva I get in these situations and I am totally into soemone who doesnt feel the same way back, its always as soon as I meet someone else and I move on the other one comes crawling.
Give her a taste of her own medicine and atleast pretend that you dont care! she'll come running.
2006-08-23 08:06:50 · answer #3 · answered by miss2sexc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reading this, the first thought that popped into my mind was get the hell out of that relationship. She does not sound like a nice person, and might even be on drugs and you don't need that kind of baggage.
Find a woman who will treasure you. They are out there.
Good luck.
2006-08-23 08:02:58 · answer #4 · answered by Matilda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your ex wants to talk to you then she will find a way. i wouldn't run back to her since she is the one that told you to F off. it didn't sound like the relationship was that great anyway.
2006-08-23 08:00:04 · answer #5 · answered by Fenris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her, let her go. Don't push anything. If you really love her, you want she to be happy, not necessarily with you.
2006-08-23 08:03:50 · answer #6 · answered by Ioana I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If everything is one sided, she probably is just using you.
2006-08-23 08:01:16 · answer #7 · answered by dogman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like how no one takes hints anymore...you are a borderline stalker find someone else
2006-08-23 08:00:41 · answer #8 · answered by theflyingtaco393 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋