he told me he has feelings for me, i thought he was joking &made no comment.now he tells me he regrets the last time he opened his heart.i don't know if he's talking about me.i don't want to ask him"do you like me?" is playing hard to get a turn off? how can i know if he really likes me?
2006-08-23 00:46:18 · 8 answers · asked by lily 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By tying yourself to the train tracks. If he saves you in a pair of red underwear over blue tights, you know that he truely likes you.
Otherwise, ask his sister.
2006-08-23 01:11:51 · answer #1 · answered by CherryBam.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he was talking about you! He opened up and you crushed him. Playing hard to get IS a turn off for the very guys you should be looking for. The only men who like it are those who see love as a competitive game, and they will break your heart as soon as they have "won you".
So go and tell him how YOU feel. Don't make something up and lie, just because you feel guilty or think you need a boyfriend for social status. If you like him, then tell him. If you don't have those kind of feelings for him, then you should tell him that and say you are sorry you hurt him.
2006-08-23 08:03:11 · answer #2 · answered by pondering_it_all 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you two? And yes, I'm pretty sure that he isinto you. He might be like me (and almost all others of the male species) where they sometimes get bored of a girl they are dating or something, accidentally break the girl's heart, and regret what they did, so they just try to keep to themselves. But yea, if I were you, I'd just go and ask him if he really does like me, and/or tell him how I feel about him first, then ask him if he likes me the same way.
But, for this way to work (and just about any other way), do YOU want a relationship with this man?
2006-08-23 07:58:19 · answer #3 · answered by Disu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you. how much clearer does the guy need to get?
he already told you he has feelings for you. and yes, he was talking about that conversation when he said he regrets the last time he opened his heart. Unless he has feelings for a lot of girls, but i dont think so.
the question that now remains is.... do u have feelings for him???
He probably thinks you don't.
Just think how you can show him that you like him. If you do this and there seems to be a good response from him, then dont waste anymore time playing games and go for it!
2006-08-23 07:55:53 · answer #4 · answered by miss2sexc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask a serious question like, "Look, you look a nice chap that a girl like me could get interested in. What is that you find attractive about girls like me?"..Take it from there.
2006-08-23 07:53:19 · answer #5 · answered by deanoray5422 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can I tell if he loves me so?
Is it in his eyes?
- Oh no, you'll be deceived
Is it in his eyes?
- Oh no, you'll make believe
Is it in his face?
- No no that's just his charm.
In his warm embrace?
- No, that's just his arm.
Hug him and squeeze him tight
And find out what you wanna' know
If you wanna' know if he loves you so
It's in his kiss.
- That's where it is.
2006-08-23 07:52:11 · answer #6 · answered by (PdB.) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he himself told u so
2006-08-23 07:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by silver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on ... ask him honey.. he won't eat u if u ask.. go on ask..talk to him
2006-08-23 07:48:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋