I've been going out with my boyfriend for more than 2 years and I recently moved in with him. We had sex like almost everyday. now he's talking about having anal sex with me. I'm confused. He says that it's ok for us to do it. Does this means that he's gay?
2006-08-23 00:42:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, not at all.. a lot of men like anal sex as it feels tighter to them.. doesnt mean he's gay as he wants to do it with you, and not a man..
2006-08-23 00:46:05 · answer #1 · answered by Frankie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just means that he wants a healthy sexual relationship. Nothing is wrong with sexual exploration. It is healthy for the both of you to try new things but dont go too fast, you can damage your relationship if new desires are pushed on to your partner without reaching an understanding first. Remeber sex can be an expression of sharing love with one another, so if you feel anal sex is an expression of love that he wants to show you than let him, otherwise explore each others desires and sexual feeling with limits.
2006-08-23 00:55:11 · answer #2 · answered by Brad B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he is NOT ! Guys love to have sex with a girl in her b*tt too. 80% of girls do perform anal sex too with their guys & nothing wrong with that & it does not mean he is gay. Having sex with u as a girl ANALLY, is not like having it with a guy.
Relax, try it , but u make sure that he uses water soluable lubricant for penetration of ur anus & he must do it slow, by fingering ur anus first, then..he could put his thing.
2006-08-23 00:50:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No just because he wants to have anal sex with you does not mean that he is gay. Lots of straight guys like this to. I think they like it because it is just something diff. something naughty so to speak. If you dont want to try this dont just explain to him that it is not something that you feel you want to do but if ya wanna try it go for it!
2006-08-23 00:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Boo....
He is a normal red blooded guy who wants some of your booty is all...
Try it...I'm sure once you get used to it..you'll love it...most women do as anal sex has a way of hitting a place so close to your G-Spot...that it will have you begging for more, and more, and more... ~smiles~...
Please NOTE:
If he doesn't do it right...you can always get ahold of me to teach YOU the right way...then you can show him too... LOL
Peace & Love,
Fast Freddy
2006-08-23 00:51:13 · answer #5 · answered by fredglendenning 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, i don't think he is gay. Maybe he just likes trying out different things... If i were you i wouldn't worry too much at this moment, you are a woman, so just believe in your instincts.
Good Luck",)
2006-08-23 00:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by angel 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. Maybe he just wants to try something different. If you think he might be, look for other signs, which I'm not quite sure what those would be.
2006-08-23 01:05:50 · answer #7 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*sigh*
No, it doesn't. Now, if he wants to have anal with a guy, then he's gay.
2006-08-23 00:45:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are getting plenty of sex, don't worry... and try the anal, you might like it...
2006-08-23 00:54:02 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, a lot of guys like that with a girl.
2006-08-23 00:45:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋