the physical pain isn't that bad. The emotional pain can be devastating if you don't choose the right person to be with the first time. I know it sounds old fashioned but waiting until marriage is the best. You don't have to worry so much about making a mistake and getting your heart broken. The man that marries you already loves you.
2006-08-23 00:03:42
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answered by chitchenitza 3
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It would be a miracle if you haven't survived something more painful in your life than loosing your virginity. It's really on par with stubbed toe or a banged knee. It's just in a very intimate part and during a time of increadible emotional stress for most girls so it can seem somewhat intense. Very few women go through life without enduring sex and growing to love it. Don't worry.
2006-08-23 07:33:24
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answered by W0LF 5
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depens on the person and if ur doing it with another virgin then yea ur going to hurt cuz yea not knowing alot but if u care for the person alot it wont matter. just wait and in time u will find for urself cuz it hurts more for some than others or not at all so just wait and see.
2006-08-23 07:02:38
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answered by slaphappy 3
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it can hurt!! if you've been fingered before it shouldnt hurt that bad, depends on your body! explore ur body and if ur still worried when u do it go slow talk to the guy and ask him if to take it slow at first you choose the pace.
2006-08-23 07:01:12
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answered by Anonymous
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There could be some pain or discomfort on first intercourse, depending how gentle your partner is, but it won't "hurt real bad", unless you are violated sexually by someone.
2006-08-23 07:01:21
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answered by Perplexed Music Lover 5
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not too bad. its more unccomfortable more than anything. dont be in too much of a hurry to find out because you might be sadly disapointed with the first time.
2006-08-23 07:02:23
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answered by smed 2
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i wont lie to you i does hurt a little bit but only for a few seconds and if you relax you will be okay
2006-08-23 07:02:51
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answered by Perez A 1
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If your using tampons, then you have probably already broke the (forgot what its called) so your already primed and ready!
2006-08-23 07:02:19
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answered by Anonymous
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it hurts, but only the first time
2006-08-23 07:10:59
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answered by venus11224 6
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if you both are in love it shouldn't hurt to much.he will be gentle and caring with you.
2006-08-23 07:01:24
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answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3
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