I told a boy i really liked him ages ago. Since telling him that we've become great mates. We've hugged but i know its just mate stuff. He KNOWS im a nutter ( I am) and he thinks im funny but i know he has his eye on someone else. Just thinking of him gives me butterflys!!.We wre recently txting but suddenly he stopped and i've called but no reply. I dont know if he's blanking me or not. I dont know WHY i like him so much! Some times i end up crying about him. His everything ive everwanted but i know i can never be with him! I hate feeling like this! Whats wrong with me!!
2006-08-22 23:29:47 · 5 answers · asked by Indiaxo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is probably nothing wrong with you. I think most people experience infatuation at one time or another.
You will get over this feeling when you realise that he is not everything you ever wanted. Try to get out and talk to other boys. You probably don't believe it at the moment, but there are plenty of other fish in the sea. Somewhere out there is a boy that will like you as much as you like him. Find him!
Make sure you spend a lot of time with your other friends (guys and gals). That is the best way to meet people and also the best way to make yourself attractive to others. Try to make yourself busy so that you don't need to think about this one boy all the time.
If this continues to bother you, talk to people about it and get a reality check! A counsellor could help a lot, but so might your family or closest friends, if you trust them to be discrete and caring.
Good luck!
2006-08-22 23:45:18 · answer #1 · answered by Fred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not much you can do, and there's not much you should do. Feelings like these give us the necessary passion and will to live, and in time, they turn us into the persons who look back at an experience like this and laugh. I don't understand why anyone would want to speed up this process. Not that it would be possible, it's true that he isn't what you've ever wanted at all, but hearing this will probably not influence you much, since you know it....right? Just hang in there and get along :)
2006-08-23 00:02:41 · answer #2 · answered by isobel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can he be "everything" that you want when he is just not into you? You need to Stop.......you are making a fool out of yourself. Find a new "great mate" and move on, sweetie........not worth what you are going through. Trust me, after you grow up, you will not even remember his name.
2006-08-22 23:36:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
--- Heart felt hug --- Sorry mate but your going to feel like this for a while. It will eventually wear out, until then don't get yourself down. Have another hug!
2006-08-22 23:35:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what did you do wrong you did not tell him again that you like him very much and plant a big kiss on him!
2006-08-22 23:36:21 · answer #5 · answered by Paul G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋