ive been friends with this girl since my freshman year in high school. we didnt exactly hit it off from the start, but slowly we became very good friends. then i started to like her and junior prom rolled around and i was going to ask her to prom when i found out my best friend wanted to ask her. so at prom he was with her and i was with another girl. i was disappointed and regretted my decision. a month later they started going out. much to my dismay i found out she liked me around the time prom hit. its been about 6 months since that day and my best friend and i are not as close as we once were. i still remain close to the girl and i still like her a lot. i love everything about her and i dont know what to do. i tried avoiding her and him completely but i just got really emotional and well, bad. i dont know what to do... should i wait and see if i still have a chance with her? would that be betraying my friend? should i ignore my feelings and start dating just any girl? help.
2006-08-22 23:28:42 · 5 answers · asked by ji! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All may be fair in love and war, but respect is respect. Respect your buddy. I'm not saying stay away from your desire for the girl. I'm saying, go to your buddy and let him know your feelings and that you want to date her. Then go to her and tell her your feelings and include how the buddy reacted.
Everyone knows, everyone can tell you what they feel and go for what you want.
2006-08-30 21:19:20 · answer #1 · answered by Ken C. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look you can't hide your feelings. There are three things
1. A best friend is more important.....but that when you are a girl guys do that to there buddies and it doesn't matter cuz they get over it.
2.If you love everything about her go for it cause you need to be open with her.
3. if your not tite with your friend anymore just go for it you won't regret it.
2006-08-25 00:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by Smiley 24/7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything you decide to do will complicate things. Well if he is your friend then he must have known that you have always liked her. I say all is fair in love and war. You never get anywhere in life by taking the backseat. You need to speak your mind and go for it.
2006-08-30 16:47:06 · answer #3 · answered by Wahenie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to this girl and tell her how you feel. If she rejects you so be it but at least you will know where you stand.
2006-08-23 06:31:39 · answer #4 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG..did you ask all of that in one breath???
LOL....
Seriously tho...don't be a dummy...go after her, and the hell with what your guy friend thinks...ALL is fair in love and war!!!
2006-08-23 06:39:22 · answer #5 · answered by fredglendenning 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋