whenever i talk 2 her when she has a problem she starts to find any reason to fight me, @ the same time im trying to solve her problem or to relax her if i can't solve her problem, what can i do?who's mistaken?
2006-08-22 23:20:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well lsn, ur girl is crazy and i knw her since school.
when she was 7 she went mad and hit the teacher with some chalks.
and once she punched a student on the nose until it bleaded!
i think u should civilize here a little bit more!! she is aggressive!!
but that's pretty fine she that she only shouts and screams! i mean she uses no hands!
2006-08-23 02:43:14 · answer #1 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not your fault my dear. There are two reasons why she behaves like that: 1) She doesn't love you anymore and that's way she doesn't want to get help from you. or 2) She is mad with herself, she might have character problems, self-problems...
I don't think you deserve this, and you don't have to bear her with her outbursts of anger, so it's better if you talk to her and clear up everything. If she is angry and mad because of her personal problems and this has nothing to do with you, then explain to her that all you are doing is just cause you love her and want to support and help her. If the problem is between you two, which means that she doesn't feel the same way about you then there is no point in trying to help her. Give up.
See what is the best for you.
I hope you guys sort this out and are happy again.
The best of luck
2006-08-23 06:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by atrabel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they're mad, a lot of people tend to throw their anger at anyone and anything that happens to be around them at that very moment, even if they don't have anything to do with their problems. So my advice is to stay out of her way a bit when she's acting like that and let her calm down on her own. Don't fuss over whatever problems she's having, because that will only increase her stress.
2006-08-23 06:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by Cheshire Riddle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's wrong. She got no right to blow off at you. Make sure that you tell her and that you are not going to stand to that. Next time she has a problem wait until she calms down by herself and when she is calm try talking to her then. If you see that she starts to get angry, leave the room and tell her that you are going to wait until she calms down and then talk to her. Best of luck amigo
2006-08-23 06:24:18 · answer #4 · answered by Rock Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her solve her own problems. Perhaps she isn't one that likes advice and takes it the wrong way. If she asks you for your opinion tell her you don't have one.
2006-08-23 06:23:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She must be bipolar or something and she sounds abusive. I think she needs a therapist and if she can't change her ways break up with her.
2006-08-23 06:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put her straight jacket back on. This time throw away the key!
2006-08-23 06:23:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
none of you is to blame... she's just stressed. she may be mad, but not at you. just be silent when she's like that, but at the same time try to show her you're there for her.
2006-08-23 06:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by Inquirer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she's so insecure over something about herself. maybe you should let her grow up first.talk to her about what she wants you to do in times of her problems,so that you know where you'll place yourself in her life. maybe she doesnt really need you
2006-08-23 06:24:49 · answer #9 · answered by snoopy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit tryna solve her problems.
she wants the attention and drama.
thats why she acts like that.
2006-08-23 06:22:50 · answer #10 · answered by 9thwonder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋