Yeah that's right. Clauses that protect me. Which means that if he decides to mess around with some hoochie, I GET PAID$$$$$$$$.
Also, being that this is being imposed on me and I am not the one initiating it, I think that he should pay for my lawyer also if he wants me to sign.
So basicly, If I cheat or decide that I am not inlove with him anymore and want a divorce, then I walk away with what I entered into the marraige with.
But, if he cheats, causes physical abuse to me, decides that he wants to leave because he claims he is not inlove anymore, I think the prenup should become void or I should still get somthing.
I can see if he wants to protect his assets, but I'm not gonna have it backfire on me.
So Yahoo people, what do you think? Can you come up with some drafts for me?
2006-08-22 22:54:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
The odds are not favorable for a marriage that requires a prenuptial agreement. In essentially all cases that means that you treat this request quite seriously. Trust me, I know. In any case, your attorney must be retained by you and must serve your interests in developing the formal document. No one can predict what will happen twenty years from now. Consider your income, your assets, what each year of your life that you lose due to a failed marriage is worth, Yes, there should be clauses in the document that you include based on your attorney's advice. Also, be sure that your attorney has prior experience drafting prenuptial agreements. The money you spend obtaining expert advice--and following it--will be well invested since you both will be comfortable with the final product. Don't rush the process and think of all eventualities! Good luck.
2006-08-22 23:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So basically your Punanni is an asset and you want to make sure that if you're going to share it with him that you are compensated fairly reguardless of wheather or not your spouse has the ability to maintiaint he marriage with nothing but your apathy to assist him. That's totally reasonable. You know from what few conversations I've had with professional women you can make a lot more money as a free agent. Maybe you should looking into going pro?
What you're discussing has no business in a marriage. It's a waste of your time and effort to go into a marraige looking to fail. If you can't approach your corporate merger like a marriage, save yourself and your fiance the pain of an ugly divorce and walk away.
2006-08-22 23:07:20 · answer #2 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but I think the two of you are both a little over concerned with money. However you are right to request a clause in the prenuptial agreement if he insist you have one. If he refuses a clause that states you are in titled to some of his assets if he cheats on you or abuses you then you shouldn't even be thinking of marrying this man. That is a sure sign that he sees those things as a possibility in your relationship.
2006-08-22 23:17:12 · answer #3 · answered by Native 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get married if you 2 don't trust each other. But you will get married anyway so get your own lawyer to review prenup and add cluases let the 2 lawyers kick it back and fourth till it is something you and fiance' can agree on.
2006-08-22 22:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by Kirk z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prenups are a fact of life with people who have assets.You are certainly entitled to some kind of settlement if he messes up. Go for a lump sum payment if he wants you out. You need your own attorney.
2006-08-22 23:06:28 · answer #5 · answered by Norman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make your own pre nup stating the exact same thing about your property
and everything that the two of you aquire since being together is to be split down the middle and you keep what was yours each to start with.
love is not selfish so objects should mean nothing to you. sign it.
but make him sign yours.
2006-08-22 22:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by ricky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're not worth the price of the paper. Hope he gets rid of you soon.
2006-08-22 23:02:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell a marige shouldnt be built on distrust if it is what is the point its not about money life isnt about money. its about being happy and if you are going to get maried it should be because you love this person not to get ritch.
2006-08-22 22:59:05 · answer #8 · answered by q-fire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Laura D. Blow it off. Save yourself alot of aggravation now and later.
2006-08-22 23:00:48 · answer #9 · answered by Dwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you don't appear to be stupid, don't do something stupid by not taking the prenup to your lawyer.
2006-08-22 23:02:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋