My ex bf still feeling hurt when we talked about some past incidents. I 'cheated' on him and he found it out. But we weren't really together at that time. I was trying to hide from him about the fact that i was having some kinda affair with another guy.
Yesterday when we were chit chatting, he's so upset about it and couldnt talk anymore. Do u think he still love me? Or was it just the hurtful feelings?
2006-08-22 22:42:05 · 17 answers · asked by UltimateKitty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry guys, it's kinda complicated but i really need help. When i 'cheated' on him, he has a gf! I treated our thing as a casual type of relationship. He then broke up with the girl and be with me.
2006-08-22 22:49:44 · update #1
he needs to find him a nice girl and quit fooling with cheaters
2006-08-22 22:45:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something very similar has happened to me recently. My girlfriend cheated on me last summer and I've spent the last year coaping with it. Usually these types of problems blow over pretty well, usually because both people in the relationship end up hating each other.
In your case you probably chose to be friends, which is what we did too. The problem i face is that its hard to forget her, I have just realized recently that I'm not in love with HER i was in love with MEMORIES of her, and her loving me. So its a very confusing feeling to have to deal with.
Most likely he had to end the conversation because talking reminded him of the way things "used to be" and then the fact that it wasn't actually, was probably just too much for him to handle.
2006-08-22 22:47:54 · answer #2 · answered by Dylan F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um...i dun think he still loves you. if you were with this guy and he cheated on you and you found out and he was trying to hide from you about the fact that he was having some kinda affair with another girl, do you think u will still love him? if you will still love him then there's a possibly that he still loves you.
2006-08-22 22:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by TrUffLe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 10:44:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably just hurting. You need to try everything you can think of to let him know that you love him and a re committed to the relationship. If you don't believe that in your heart, then don't make the commitment.
2006-08-22 22:43:59 · answer #5 · answered by Velociraptor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. I think the feeling is mixed and complicated as your said. What you have done did hurt his feeling and he probably still has some feeling for you. He might still love you but he might also wonder if he could trust you. Good luck
2006-08-22 22:55:15 · answer #6 · answered by Lune 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably a little hurt by the fact you cheated on him. If he never speaks to you again, then you have reasons to worry.
2006-08-22 22:43:56 · answer #7 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oooohhh! damand you hurt a sincere man. He still loves you. confess your cheating infront of him and apology him. I am sure he will forgive you and will be again a true bf. Don't betray him in future.
2006-08-22 22:53:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he still likes you but doesnt know if he can get over the fact that you cheated on him. he is undecided about if he loves you enough to forgive and forget. its hard to trust someone after they do something like infidelity.
2006-08-22 22:45:55 · answer #9 · answered by 9thwonder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is sure not in love with u. He is emotionally attached with u. There is a considerable difference in both. I hope u know the difference.
2006-08-22 22:53:13 · answer #10 · answered by Ss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋