....chased after a guy, gotten him to pay attention to you, and followed through with the whole process to get him to fall in love with you, just for the sole purpose of dumping him and breaking his heart?
Just wondering because I hear stories about this sort of thing but don't know how much it actually happens.
2006-08-22 22:34:38 · 15 answers · asked by I Know Nuttin 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no am not that heartless
2006-08-22 22:43:08 · answer #1 · answered by destiny 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The sole purpose is never to break his heart. I have deceived both a great guy and myself into falling in love, but heart break was never the purpose. Often women find that what they thought they wanted wasn't really right for them after all. I'm not sure about your stories, only my own. Most women spend their lives pining away about what the perfect guy would do and then when he does it it's sort of like the desire switch goes off and they find that they didn't even like those things in a man outside of her fantasies (or less frequently he is in a perpetual state of fantasy and so is no good in reality) I don't even know why I'm answering this. I'll stop now :( BW
2006-08-23 09:33:22 · answer #2 · answered by colorist 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never done that, but I used to fantasize about it when i was younger. A woman who attempts to do that obviously has a chip on her shoulder. I don't mean to dis' men, but don't you realize how much men hurt women? Look at rape statistics, heck yeah there are a lot of angry women out there... it doesn't excuse hurting a good guy, but some women just can't believe that they exist. It's sad for both parties. I've never hurt anyone, and I've learned not to be so bitter, but I certainly understand it.
2006-08-23 05:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by Kerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have heared that before and even read in some love stories pocket book but it never happened in my real life.
2006-08-23 05:43:50 · answer #4 · answered by richel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What kind of people are telling you stories like that? I have had many girlfriends, and don't recall any one of them doing such a horrible thing like that! And if she did......she wouldn't be my friend anymore. What a sick thing to do to a person.
2006-08-23 05:42:31 · answer #5 · answered by sonny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we don't always intend 4 u 2 fall n luv but we do like 2 play wit u!
2006-08-23 05:52:34 · answer #6 · answered by lots of luv carebear 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes alot of females do this its a thrill once we have them we dont want them we always set our sights on things we think we cant get or are good enough for then we attack and fight for it then we get it and moveon to the next orey however when it happens to us everything changes
2006-08-23 05:41:21 · answer #7 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No never. I also don't intend of doing that. But some girls do that and they themselves know what make them do so.
2006-08-23 05:41:45 · answer #8 · answered by mehnaazishaa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I actually have better things to do with my life.
2006-08-23 05:38:17 · answer #9 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont no why anyone would, id assume that the chick liked the guy for a while and then well didnt
2006-08-23 05:53:55 · answer #10 · answered by jen_bolten99 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If they have, they deserve to be treated like that Natalie Holloway girl.
Disappeared.
2006-08-23 05:37:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋