y do ppl compare pre-marital sex to test driving a car??

Question

a person cannot be compared to a material!!!!

i'm 16 now
and have sworn to be a virgin till marriage
i want to fall i luv wid a guy who's a virgin 2
but such chivalrous breed of guys is very rare
i wonder if they're really left
this thot disppoints me........

Answer 1

I have heard that before as well. The try before you buy statement. Sex is beautiful in a marriage between one man and one woman. And when a married couple is in love the sex part will get better and better as they mature in their marriage. That kind of thinking is just an excuse to have sex before you get married and thats it. For the girls out there think about it. Are you willing to give yourself up to a guy whose just taking you out for a testdrive but isn't willing to commit to you in marriage.

Answer 2

First of all i congratuate you on you convictions and yes there are virgen men out there who want the same thing. I know this because I have a friend who just recently lost his virginity to his spouce at the tender age of 26 during the honeymoon.

Now as for the guys that say stuff like that, I'd guess they probably weren't virgens. Remember it's easier to tell if a woman is a virgen then a man. For example I can say I am and it would be hard to prove that I'm not one.

Now as for why people say that. Sex can be a big or small part in a relationship (ussually big). So if the partner can not satisfy them they won't want to be with that person. Don't get scared, with a virgen it's different.

See when you've been with a lot of people your expectations are high. In other words you've experienced lot of different ways, so some can be good or bad.

Now when it comes to 2 virgens, niether knows what is good or bad, so it's all good.

Think of it like kissing. If you only kissed one person then that person would be a great kisser, however if you kissed many people then some would be good and others would be bad. Think about it when you were a little bit younger a small peck on the lips was great.

Now for the analogy side of your question. A bad car could mean disaster. For a person that is not a virgen so could a bad sex partner.

Answer 3

I have never heard this but I would guess the people that are doing it are rude and have never been in love as well as do not know the true meaning of love and commitment. Wonder how long it will take the world to realize that love and marriage are not solely or even mainly dependent on sex. I believe all great marriages were based on friendship first and sex second, we all know at one point in life sex will eventually go and what will those that had a marriage based on sex have left nothing of any substance I can see.

Answer 4

Yes we can (be compared to material). That's what metaphors are. And I guess pre-marital sex IS like test driving a car... But that's sad if a person will base an entire relationship on just the sex part. Sex is an important factor in a relationship, but should not be the deciding factor in a relationship

Answer 5

there's a distinction between premarital sex and sex and it begins out of your first decision. your first sexual come upon did you want to easily have sex or were you in a relationship that became premarital. human beings basically seem to have sex and then a relationship it quite is the incorrect way your body is the biggest element of you its particular and in case you supply it to absolutely everyone for a moments exhilaration rather of valuing it it makes you form of like an animal which won't be able to administration its impulses . how are you to detect strategies to comprehend, love or improve with one yet another after sex became in touch as a results of the undeniable fact that brings a clean expectation to a relationship so once you've a deep feeling for another except lust which does no longer very last lengthy . friendship compatibility openness communication then sex sturdy or undesirable should be able to artwork it out with communication because once you've those issues your over all relationship will be more desirable helpful sex is only a small element of an everyday marriage or maybe with the undeniable fact that time sex ameliorations besides yet a sturdy initiating clone of with a house will very last

Answer 6

I like what pastorJ said about girls. I think that's true. Your body is sacred and you shouldn't give it up to someone that you have not committed yourself to in the form of marriage vows. I think about the car is just an excuse too. I don't know of ANYONE who has waited who has regretted it. I'm sure someone who has slept with everyone that they've ever dated might say the same thing and that's fine I guess if they want to be that way. What better gift could you give your husband or wife on your wedding night than your virginity?

Answer 7

You are so right, and there is not the *death penalty* for driving a car, like there is for unrepentant practicers of fornication; Revelation 22:14, Rev. 20:14,15.

Answer 8

Well if a girl lets a man test drive her before marriage without any commitment, there is no difference to a man than test driving a car and seeing how she feels to him.

In this aspect it is the same analogy. Women today have lost their integrity and self worth. By giving men sex before marriage and loving commitment then men have no reason not to compare their women like a car. We use them and throw them away if they don't perform up to our standards.

Now do you understand the comparison?

Answer 9

Like my uncle Jeff says. Having sex is like riding a bike, Driving a car, or making moonshine: you never forget.

Answer 10

If only everyone thot th same way as u and me. the world wld b a better place to live in