today, well only just now my step mother came to the hospital, she saw my father was in a coma, and i was quite happy that i tought she actually came to visit, but she brought a lawyer and started to divide wealth and all, in a way like asking her share as if my father was dead, i tried arguing, but she almost pushed me off and said my father was a piece of junk i was angry, i dont know what i should do, please anyone Muffin ann? anyone?
2006-08-22 21:58:29 · 12 answers · asked by Rivern 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Dear Rivern, Yes what She did was awful. It was greedy, harsh, not to mention unkind, Her actions showed No compassion, it was just very, very wrong. I am very sorry that You had to see that, and for the fact that She pushed You off. If She actually pushed You, where I live that is considered assault. But that is Her, and She will have to stand in judgment for Her actions. Perhaps Your Dad was also mean and abusive to Her. Just a possibility. Still doesn't make what She did in anyway right. But You have to put that out of Your mind. Your mission is helping Your Dad recover, and to let Him know how much You care about Him. It is also a time to speak from Your heart, so He can hear the pain He has caused You. You may think that sounds wrong at this time. But that may very well be what this time is for. Hopefully it is a time for You to talk to Your Dad, help Him through this, and let Him realize how wonderful You are, then the two of You embrace, love one another, and live happily ever after. I would love that, because that is what You want so much.
You have to examine everything that has happened in Your life here lately. Another attempt, Your Dad finding out, and professing not to care. On Your way to a new home, after all these years, and then this. I know Your mind is tired, but looks like something is taking charge of Your destiny.
Look at it this way - If My Husband was abusive to Me, and told Me that I was all the things Your Dad says to You. Would You be angry with Him? Would You feel helpless to help Me? Would You want Me to stay in a place where this would continue to happen? It looks different when it affects Someone You care about. As I do You. So I am still praying, and I hope for Your sake that everything will turn out the way You would like it to. But if Your Dad does get well, and knows how faithful You were, and is still mean to You, and wants You to go. Know there is something wonderful that God has prepared for You, and that there is a reason that this has happened. No matter how confused We will both be.
Much Love, Always..............
Muffin Ann
2006-08-23 13:20:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is a gold digger. Unfortunately people don't always pick the best choice in partners. Some are only out there for money. I don't know how old you are, but you may want to start checking to see if your dad has a will. Check the laws in the state. Do you have other siblings? She may be entitled to everything. Keep a log and document everything. What happened that your dad is in a coma? If he is in good health and it is questionable, you may want to speak to the police. You may need to get your own attorney.
2006-08-22 23:20:29 · answer #2 · answered by RITA G 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i've got discovered my lesson. I as quickly as gave a homeless guy 5 money on my thank you to subway from my place of living in college. on the some time past I observed him at seven 11 smoking a joint. by no skill returned. He reported he became into going to burger king. It became into 6 blocks the incorrect direction.
2016-10-02 10:43:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately yes to some people not most i am not sure how old you are but i suggest that you get your father a lawyer even though he is dying and your self one that way your step mother can not get it all off you and your father
2006-08-22 22:04:33 · answer #4 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It never ceases to surprise me or disgust me how certain people are like vultures and will pick your bones clean if given the chance. It is sad and happens every day. Just protect yourself and your father's interests as best you can. Good luck.
2006-08-22 22:08:11 · answer #5 · answered by D baby 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Face it! Wen a person is abt to die ppl around them will mostly b putting their "eye" on $..... If i were u....i will tell her off...if my dad is a pc of junk y u still here with him...might as well join him in hell I pity u la....if u r nt alone get others to help u at least gv her a few slaps on her stuipd $ face oni shiok mah....but if u alone then no choice u jus hv to stand there n watch yr dad die.....sad....but tat how life is...
2006-08-22 22:07:52 · answer #6 · answered by D@ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No ...Money is not everything ...If money can cure your father and also can buy little good heart for your step mother and lot of courage for you my friend ...Money can only buy luxuries not love ,pain and feelings ...Some people are there who just need money because they think money can buy everything but they don't know they apart from luxuries they can buy nothing...
2006-08-22 22:11:02 · answer #7 · answered by archu v 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes money talks
2006-08-22 22:05:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
this woman should be put back in the gutter where she came from. you should hire a lawyer for yourself.
2006-08-26 20:35:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have been mad also..but usually that is how people are.
Prey your dad pulls through so he can change the will himself.
2006-08-22 22:07:26 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋