My girlfriend just started college...She started hanging out with this guy named Matt. Well im away right now in the Military stationed in Korea. Well she said the other day that he came over to watch a movie...they went to a party....and today on my lunch break when i called she was at the movies with him. Well she does always have her bestfriend with her tho. She knows this bothers me and dosent want me to hang out with girls tho. What do you think about all this and what i should do? I go home in a month and have ALOT of girls and guys to go see and hang out....Thanks guys and gals!
2006-08-22 21:52:27 · 13 answers · asked by travis b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i had a good friend that i use to hang with when my husband was out to see, before we got married too...he really was just a friend, and he was actually someone i could talk to about how much i missed my husband! i hope it works out for you!!! but, if it doesn't, then you should realize that you deserve better!!!
take care!!!!
2006-08-22 21:58:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi.
I think that your gf is just feeling a bit lonely as you are not around that's why she is spending some time with that guy. This doesn't mean that she doesn't love you. You should be happy that atleast she didn't hide it from you. She could have meet the guy and you wouldn't have got a glimpse of that as you are far away. But she told you the truth. This shows that she loves you a lot. And my dear you don't have anything to fear about. Her best friend is always with her so it's obvious that Matt is just a friend of hers and nothing more. She loves you a lot. No doubt about that as she doesn't want you to hang out with other girls. Am sure that everything will be back to normal again as soon as you return back. You should trust your gf. If she really loves you, then she won't ever think of betraying you. Try to understand her. She is behaving like that only because you are not by her side and she is missing you loads. Have a conversation with her again. If you still feel that she should stop meeting Matt, then tell her to do so. If she really loves you, she will surely do that much for you. Hope things work out well for you. Wish you all the best.
2006-08-23 05:20:48 · answer #2 · answered by mehnaazishaa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She Could Be Physically Lonely, No Question About That....But I'd Say Confront Her, And If You Don't Know Him...I'd "Ask" Her To Chill With It, Like Not Stop Hangin' With Him Just Maybe Cutting It Down, Considering It Is Bothering You. And Let Her Know How It Is Really Making You Feel....
2006-08-23 04:56:00 · answer #3 · answered by iLL_TeK_NeekZ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sort it out when you get home. Keep her in your heart and try not to think the worst but also be prepared for things to change also. Even if she isn't seeing this guy she will have changed as she has adjusted to life without you. Long Distance is hard dude. For both parties and you both still need to have fun and get out. Be grateful that she told you at all that she was spending time with this guy. It would be worse to come back and find out. Just keep and open mind and an open heart. Expect the worst and hope for the best. Good luck.
2006-08-23 05:00:27 · answer #4 · answered by sticky 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She may just be hanging out with her friends, dont do ar let ur mind stray before u have anything concrete. Wait for the month to end and go see how she, there u will tell if there is a change in her feelings.
2006-08-23 04:57:05 · answer #5 · answered by aasweet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? Korean women are fantastic!
Look, do both of you a favor and let it go. Tell her you want to be more but it just doesn't feel good and the circumstances are wrong.. No need to get nasty. Take care of yourself like she is doing. The relationship probably wouldn't have survived anyway with her new to college. I just want to know how do you restrain yourself over there? Your better than me!
2006-08-23 05:05:24 · answer #6 · answered by Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the golden rule : do as i say,not as i do. Go home and hang out with whoever you choose,if she doesn't like it,drop her like a hot rock,to bad,so sad.
2006-08-23 05:12:23 · answer #7 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes bogus because if its nothing she would have kept it from you like girls often do , me anyway. but it seems as if shes trying to rub it in your face. when you get home don't find her let her find you, and when she calls tell her you're at the movies with one of your many gals. TRUST ME! A TASTE OF HER OWN MEDICINE AND SHE'LL THINK TWICE!
2006-08-23 04:56:24 · answer #8 · answered by BREIZY2SHA 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude, screw that! She's up to no good. Bet your
a** Where there is smoke there is fire. If you are worried enough about it to ask about it you already have a gut feeling go with that gut feeling bro You know what to do
2006-08-23 05:00:02 · answer #9 · answered by N search of truth 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do what u gotta do. if she doesn't want u hangin out with girls maybe she shouldn't b hangin out wit sum dude while u r away. maybe a lil taste of what she's doing to u is what she needs.
2006-08-23 04:58:26 · answer #10 · answered by hellosexymoto 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋