masturbating with his mothers panties. what do i do.
2006-08-22 21:51:37 · 12 answers · asked by curious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do nothing .. the masturbation part is perfectly normal. It may be that they were just the most available panties to him.
If there is a little bit more to it then dont worry either since mothers and sons do have a bond and it is the first relationship that a guy ever has with a girl .. it will just go away I am sure as soon as maturity sets in ...
You could also tell the mom so that she could perhaps modify her behaviour a little to put some distance but I really think this is an innocent thing and nothing to worry about ;)
2006-08-22 21:56:49 · answer #1 · answered by enzuigiriuk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the question phrased correctly? Are you the teenager's mother? The wording looks to me like it is misleading the answers posted here to you...
From what I have read/heard/experienced, hormones flare with the scent of the genitals of the opposite sex. Sweat glands that drive the opposite sex wild with desire? Hormones flare even more so in teenagers, yes?
Masturbation is normal in teenagers.
Scent of a woman is found in the panties. If mother's is the only one available, then so it will be. Some will look at the idea as perverse (Mother and all) and overlook at the senses of smell.
Have a talk with him? By all means, but who shall do the talking? I am still trying to figure out if the person who caught the boy was his mother and asked for advice...
Yes, he should have a Sex Talk, but should be with his father/brother/uncle so he will feel more comfortable. Open to learning instead of feeling ashamed/embarrassed and withdraw?
Psychologist? Heck, he would learn more from Dr. Ruth and feel better about himself too...
2006-08-23 05:12:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do take him to the psychologist so that you and your son don't have permanent mental scars about this. It might not be because he's into having sex with his mother, it could be that these are the only pair of panties he got hold of and tried to not remember that they were mom's. He needs professional help though to rule out if he is having any abnormal tendencies that can be curbed now.
2006-08-23 04:55:05 · answer #3 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. By all means don't embarrass him which will make him withdraw but ask him what it is all about. It could be a phase where all the hormones are rushing in and it's a symbol of the opposite sex and his imagination is running wild. Just support him and let him know you are there to answer questions and guide him. Good luck.
2006-08-23 04:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by D baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend you didn't see, don't make a big issue out of it. It's a sick awkward thing to see and weird for him to do, for sure, but it doesn't mean there is anything wrong with him. Have a sex talk, have him buy his own panties for that.
2006-08-23 04:54:09 · answer #5 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. It is just natural, think nothing of it. They just do dumb things at that age. My son dropped down a microphone next to our window from his room upstairs, so hear if there was any activity at night in our room. They are just goofy when they are teens, they are not thinking straight. It meant nothing.
2006-08-23 04:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by shardf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
help him out, slip some thongs in the laundry basket, or put them in his room, maybe he will stop reaching for your panties, now tht he has a pair he can keep
2006-08-23 04:53:48 · answer #7 · answered by start w/ laughs ends witha fight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from.Sorry just kidding.
Maybe he needs counselling. Its not very normal. But then again its certainly not very rare. Hopefully with time it'll pass away and he'll know better.
2006-08-23 04:55:01 · answer #8 · answered by Smart_Dumb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing,,, pretend like it never happened, because i think if you said anything he would be very em-barest, and feel awkward around you and his mother
2006-08-23 04:52:49 · answer #9 · answered by mami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dicreetly go away, it is just a phase he is going trough
2006-08-23 07:06:42 · answer #10 · answered by acid tongue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋