Can having a bi-curious girlfriend ruin our relationship?

Question

I honestly don't think it could, because I support my girl every step of the way, but could my girlfriend's being bi-curious have a negative effect on us? We have discussed having a threesome so she can experience a girl... what do you think?? Is there anyone that would be interested in talking to us? If so, IM me... we can talk... but what do you think?

Answer 1

i do believe that it can ruin your relationship but it all depends on you and how you act. not to place all the blame on you but the way you carry it will reflect how she will. and also it depends on how curious she is. i've been there before. my ex knew that i had an affinity for women and he was cool with that, and we talked about the 3some thing but to be honest its kinda hard to find a female that will join you to, thats when the problems start. cause then u ask how curious is she? will she go off and do it without you? then when she starts to be sneaky about it the problems start. there is also another senario. what if you fall for the other girl? or realize that your not sexually satisfied with you girl. to be honest it can work if you make it work but from past experience i think it works better when your gf has already had sex with women prior to dating you.....good luck

Answer 2

Please dont let me come off sounding TOTALLy rude here but I have a couple of things to point out: 1. You dont OWN her so LETTING her do something with her own body is not even something that should be up for discussion. 2. You dont OWN her and she shouldnt have to ASK PERMISSION to do anything with her own body. There, now that I have that out of the way.. I think a DISCUSSION where each of you bring up your own doubts and fears and openly examine them together is where you should start. This is really much bigger than just being curious and wanting to try it on. This involves you two as a couple. It will involve the third person who may not want a man present. It might put a strain on your relationship if she decides she really likes having sex with women. It could lead to resentment on your part and an eventual diminishing of respect for each other and possibly result in a break-up. Before you "give permission" or she decides to go ahead and do it, sit down together and really talk about all the pitfalls. I dont think trying on curiosity is worth 9 years of relationship.

Answer 3

It depends how jealous you both are. If this girl comes into the picture its safe as long as you pay equal if not more attention to your gf during the first time. And as this is for her, perhaps it wouldn't be so bad to step back a little. Its can get very complicated and there is a chance you two could create a gap, so make sure that you are both prepared and secure in your relationship that this girl won't get in the way. Speaking of that make sure you can choose someone who is willing to do that for you both as well so she doesn't compete or feel bad as the third wheel. I think if you go in completely ready and are both honest with your feelings afterwards you'll be fine. good luck.

Answer 4

Are you takeing the piss, many guys would kill to be in your position

But honestly it would depend on how serious your relationship is. If your just up for a little fun then sure why not.

Hope this helps.

Answer 5

As long as you know up front it won't unless she wants to go to the other side,and no longer wants you.

Answer 6

Hey, whatever...better to include you than have her gallavant around and sleep with other women without you.

Answer 7

you should take sometime away from you guys and let her see if she is attracted to women

Answer 8

Maybe-maybe not-depends on your & her & your degrees of maturity.

Answer 9

We need to talk.

Answer 10

It will cause huge problems.
HUGE problems.